Here it goes....
I was seeing someone for 2 years and we both cared for each other but I broke it off after I could see he was not on the same page in terms of commitment and we're both older so I didn't want to lose time. He was very sweet and caring and reserved (like my late husband) but never introduced me to his family and friends after almost 2 years even though I introduced to everyone early one; he promised trips we never took; and in general, did not have a lot of time for me (he worked almost 6 days/week) and he wasn't willing to change.
I met someone else and have been seeing him