Hello, Its been a year and 2 months since i have been with my boyfriend and we are living together. I don't understand why every day we some how end up discussing ex's or past things we have been through I'm getting tired of it ! Everytime we say right no more talking about any previous relationships we manage to keep going back to the same habit. We also bring up past things all the time on a normal day to day life or in arguments. Any one have any suggestions of how this can stop ?