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I can relate to this i was in a relationship for 4 years and put on so much weight where he did call me names. See if you can be proscribed other antidepressants. If what he is saying is hurting you then tell him he is entitled to his own thoughts bit for him to keep it to himself because its upsetting you tell him you are trying. I ended the relationship went from 95kg to 70kg but i am 5ft 10. I did it by eating healthy and doing intermediate fasting.

I have to admit i am the one who keeps bailing but that's because when i say i am upset he fights it instead of listening i don't want him to agree or understand everything i say but at least listen. If its not listening i find he is jealous when I'm around other men he say he doesn't feel like he exists on social occasions but it then annoys me beacuse behind closed doors i have to ask for affection or give it to him but that is because i am a private person where he wants us to be " close " in social events but i don't even know how to do this ? I will try use them questions next time it happens to help me with getting to some sort of a solution. I agree we do need need willpower and most definitely need to mature more. I feel like i am slowly losing patience with it all. I want a peaceful relationship.

So i have tried the whole day not saying anything about previous then he mentions it i say i don't want to talk about previous but it just carriers on some how. Yeah i do think we do that and i do believe its when nasty bickering happens. How would you address incompatibilities and greivences ? Some times i'm really happy with how the relationship is going then i get waves of not wanting to be with him. I have broken up with quite a few times asked for breaks where he stays at his parents but i still end up feeling like i don't want to be around him its like a rollercoaster. I tell him my boundaries and how i feel then i get I'm sorry won't happen again and his behaviour continues in a different way. I feel like he brings out the worse in me and I'm always feel like maybe i am waisting my time i just dont know what i want

I guess we do in some ways yes. See i don't think we miss our ex's i think its just not being able to move from the past. Yeah your right it shouldn't be tbh i'm just getting tired of it

The discussions are usually about what it was like in our past relationships or things they did and its not even like its the most recent ex's its usually all of our ex's we have both had 2 previous relationships. When we argue we bring up things that we have been told about previous relationships or things that happened at the beginning of our relationship because we didn't start off on a good start

The discussions are usually about what it was like in our past relationships or things they did and its not even like its the most recent ex's its usually all of our ex's we have both had 2 previous relationships. When we argue we bring up things that we have been told about previous relationships or things that happened at the beginning of our relationship because we didn't start off on a good start

Hello, Its been a year and 2 months since i have been with my boyfriend and we are living together. I don't understand why every day we some how end up discussing ex's or past things we have been through I'm getting tired of it ! Everytime we say right no more talking about any previous relationships we manage to keep going back to the same habit. We also bring up past things all the time on a normal day to day life or in arguments. Any one have any suggestions of how this can stop ?