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  1. This is a general reply to everyone's comments. I'm just gonna clarify some things because y'all are making your own conclusions as well as misinterpreting things that I only wrote to put some perspective on the issue. The mention and thought of children stems from the fact that we both want them, spent lots of time taking care of them, and almost had one of our own. No, I wasn't aware that the sister had disliked me so much when I moved in. When I first moved in she stated that upon our first interaction she thought I was rude (I was helping them move into the house we live in now,
  2. Honestly, if we could adopt her I would be totally down but I doubt her parents would allow it and would probably put strain on my boyfriend and his brother's relationship, which I definitely don't want because they have a very close bond and I find it adorable.
  3. @catfeeder Honestly, I was unaware that she didn't like me until then. When my boyfriend and I first got together she told me that when we first met she thought I was very rude. I was helping them move because his mom is friends with my step-dad, basically she said while carrying a box to the car I'd bumped into her and didn't say sorry or anything. I don't remember this occurance and she's known for exaggerating. Once I moved in she complained about almost everything I did, especially if it involved her daughter. She, thankfully, has stopped causing drama since the day before Thanksgivin
  4. @boltnrun We, simply, just don't have enough money yet. We pay a large portion of our money to live here (a very long and unfair story), he is getting a higher paying job next week. We have to buy a car before moving into an apartment.
  5. @Andrina We've been together a year and I've been living here almost 6 months, we plan to move out once we've saved up a bit (we're buying a car first). Then we plan on having kids as we both want a family of our own. He loves kids, especially his niece and I have absolutely no problem with his affection for her, I just wish that he showed the same for me. Maybe he's tired from giving her attention constantly, because she is with us all day. I feel like moving out is the only way for me to solve this problem, I guess I just needed a rant to hold me over until then.
  6. @abitbroken Her dad is around, he works until 1 am which is when she winds up going to sleep. Honestly it's just bad parenting on their part which led to her horrible attitude. I know she's a child and she doesn't know any better but jeez, I can't wait to move out.
  7. @abitbroken I'm not going to move out as I very much love my boyfriend, we're working towards getting our own apartment but this is where I'm at in the meantime. We don't shower with her, just me an my boyfriend shower together... I don't see how that's weird, we're conserving water.
  8. @boltnrun it's something we're currently working on, the problem will be solved by then. I can handle the jealousy most of the time but when I'm ready for bed an he won't take her to her own bed, I find it frustrating. Especially since I'm not allowed to go in their room.
  9. @MissCanuck Before I moved in she primarily slept in his bed as I understand it. Her mom is frequently very rude to her and her dad seems to just tolerate her. It's been told to me that they're only together because they had her. She's very clingy and dependent and it's not hard to see why. I don't think our values are that different, as I said, I love this kid too. I'm mostly having trouble with feeling like I'm left out of the family because the sister-in-law barely wants me to interact with her daughter.
  10. I feel crazy posting this to the internet but I need some advice so, what the hell. Sorry it's so long lol My boyfriend has lived with his family for years, including his 3 yr. old niece; who is just about his favourite person in the world. I moved in with them about 5 months ago, until that point he had such a strong relationship with his niece that they slept in the same bed. Now, I love children, I claim everyone's kid as my own regardless of whether I know them or not. However, from the point I moved in, my boyfriend's sister-in-law made it abundantly clear that she didn't like me and
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