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  1. Thank you! I think you’re right we’re both hurting in some way maybe him more than me. Thank yiu so much for your advice
  2. Our relationship was actually great considering it was long distance. I’m not surprised he’s done this because he naturally likes to deal with his issues alone. And you are right he told me he didn’t want me to wait for him but at the same time he did? I don’t know if he’ll move on or if he’ll even try to because he was saying I was the best thing that happened to him but he thinks I could do better. Idk if this is him thinking I’m going to hurt him so he’s leaving before that happens?
  3. Me and boyfriend have been together for nearly a year and it’s a long distance relationship. Obviously it’s been really tough but somehow we managed to go through our challenges strongly. recently we had a little arguement because he thought something was happening between me and this one guy but that wasn’t the case. then he texted me out of the blue that he wanted to just be friends. We went back and forth and finally we went on call to talk things through. On the call he told me he was going through some really deep personal issues (I’m assuming grieving because he’s been grieving
  4. Thank you guys for your advice! I’ll just send a happy New Years message but just leave it at that. I know how he is and i can see he is hurting and going through personal issues and this is a natural thing for him to do (pushing people away). im hoping he knows I’ll always support him
  5. Nah he didn’t ask me to check up on him and I guess you’re right It’s just that the call we had for the breakup didn’t end well. He was thinking I was trying to get him to still stay in the relationship with me when I just wanted to understand what he was expecting me to do. I don’t want him thinking that I’m not there for him or that I’m going to move on just like that
  6. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he’s going through some personal problems with his family to do with his 3 close family members dying within the space of a few months. he said he wanted to be friends but this is my first heartbreak and the love that was and still is there is unexplainable. I’m not sure of what to do. we have been through a lot of drama worse than this one and still came out strong. I can see he’s hurting over something but he doesn’t want to talk about it but I still want to be there for him because I still love and care for him. do I tex
  7. I’m going through something similar. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he’s going through some personal problems with his family to do with his 3 close family members dying within the space of a few months. he said he wanted to be friends but this is my first heartbreak and the love that was and still is there is unexplainable. I’m not sure of what to do. do I text him and let him know that I’ll give him the space he needs but I will check up on him (because I’m worried about his mental health and when we broke up it didn’t feel like we were both on the same page) or
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