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  1. Hi guys, So yes, it's me again, I have asked about this man on here twice before because I've always had periods of being so unsure of the relationship. Neither of these were because of him, but because I've never had a real relationship so I don't know what it's supposed to be like and I'm so anxious about it going wrong when we get more serious. First question, if I'm having this many doubts about the relationship, does it mean it's not right for me? Or can I just blame my anxiety for all the overthinking I do? Second "question" is more of a problem than a question.
  2. Thank you so much for this, I will do as you've said and try not to take it to heart ๐Ÿ˜Œ
  3. Unfortunately mostly by text as he doesn't like to speak over the phone, it makes him quite anxious and as I said above I understand because my sister is the same and so I wont push him to
  4. Thank you for your kind words. That makes sense because I'm also feeling much more deflated and I know he can sense that. Perhaps he just feels we don't have much to talk about? I don't know.
  5. Thank you, he doesn't like facetime or phone calls, I believe they make him quite anxious. Which I understand as my sister is the same so I don't force it on him. Thank you for your kind words ๐Ÿ’•
  6. No, if we go a few days without speaking or sometimes even just a day, he will always message before I do
  7. Hi, it's actually nice to see a reply from you again ๐Ÿ˜Š I think my reaction to this means I really do like him a lot more than I thought๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜‚ Of course I do still worry about my feelings towards him but I took all of your advice and I'm sticking with it. As I said, when I have these thoughts of do I really like him I just breathe and try to appreciate my time with him. I think this has made me realise I really do love being around him. I did think that too you know, maybe he's been getting the feeling that I'm distracted when I'm with him, because truthfully I have been. I'm just no
  8. Sorry I should have said we're both 21 and live at home with our parents. We both feel it would be rude to our parents to break the rules to be in their houses and my mum is also high risk and shielding so my house is definitely out of the question. Other than that we're just trying to follow the rules like everyone else!
  9. Hi everyone, I've been dating this guy for about six months and we've been meeting up on and off due to the covid rules changing so much where we live. We're currently unable to see each other for god knows how long due to the rules and I'm really struggling. I'm not sure how we're going to make it work, I'm worried we won't make it work. We both really like each other, like a lot, and I bought my worries up to him the other day. He said that he's not going anywhere and I don't need to worry. I then apologised for being so emotional about it and he said he wanted me to be able t
  10. In my work I have to visit people's houses, the guy I'm currently dating I've known for over a year through my work. I'm not sure this counts but I see him all the time due to being at his house for work and one day right after the first lockdown we just got talking. He then messaged me not even half an hour later and asked me out on a date. Of course, now the rules have changed we're not actually seeing each other in person but we're still dating ๐Ÿ™‚
  11. Did he say if he came down to see his friend that he would also see you? Perhaps he really was busy with his friend. Or maybe he was too nervous to meet you? How long have you been speaking to him? Has he said that he likes you? I think if it's been a long time and he's said that he likes you, it is kind of strange that he wouldn't make the effort to see you. Either way if I were you I would tell him how I feel, tell him that you're upset that you made it obvious you wanted to see him and he turned you down. Maybe he will explain himself or make you feel better somehow.
  12. Thank you for your responses everyone๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป I saw him again today and everything just feels so right when I'm with him. This time when I felt myself thinking about whether we would work out I bought myself back to the present. I found myself staying in the moment a lot more and just enjoying the date๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป
  13. That could possibly be part of the problem. I'm also afraid he will get to know me and hate me. I also worry a lot about breaking his heart if we do end up staying together and I realise it's all wrong for me!
  14. I really do crave stability in my every day life and subconsciously I think I crave it in a relationship too. It's funny because I've recognized that the "flaws" I don't like in him are exactly the same as the flaws I hate in myself. It's like I focus on those parts of him because I hate those parts of myself. One is that he is quick to anger. He has never been angry with me and I don't think he would be easily but he has told me that he can have a short fuse. I think I've noticed it a few times but that may just be because he said it and I'm now looking for signs of it. I have a sh
  15. Oh no I never date anyone in a relationship, I tend to stick around for the guys that blow hot and cold. Or I guess I used to, the last year I've stayed away from any guy that seems like trouble because I know deep down I want a real relationship, I really want stability with one man. He's lovely and thoughtful. I was feeling ill for one of our dates and I told him but we didn't want to cancel. He bought blankets and pillows and chocolate for me so we could chill and talk in his car if I felt too unwell on the date. He's really confident and that may be one of the best things about him, h
  16. Hi everyone, I hope you're all okay and have had a lovely Christmas despite the current state of the world! Sorry if it's a long one... I'm 21 and the guy I'm dating is 23. I've been dating him four months now. Sometimes we've gone two weeks between seeing each other due to covid. By the time it comes to seeing him again I'm nervous and don't want to go but I relax as soon as I'm with him. I think that I really like this guy, but I like him so much that it's scaring me and I'm thinking of ways to get out. I've not had a relationship for three years and in the three years I'
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