I got out of a bad relationship a while back and I am just getting into a new one. I realized that the last guy was potentially abusive and I spent a lot of my time being single looking at the red flags i missed. Now, this guy is incredibly sweet. Would do anything for me. Constantly compliments me and tells me i'm perfect, amazing, etc. He sometimes gets a little jealous but it never crosses into possessiveness. he never tells me what to wear, who to see or anything like that. He just may say "wow you look amazing tonight, I'm going to have to fight off all those guys looking at you." or something along those lines. In my in depth dive I found jealousy and overcomplimenting as red flags. I am worried that i'm being hyper vigilant. I just don't want to get into anything like with my ex. Thanks! ❤️
Dating - Jealousy and Overcomplimenting Red Flags?
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I got out of a bad relationship a while back and I am just getting into a new one. I realized that the last guy was potentially abusive and I spent a lot of my time being single looking at the red flags i missed. Now, this guy is incredibly sweet. Would do anything for me. Constantly compliments me and tells me i'm perfect, amazing, etc. He sometimes gets a little jealous but it never crosses into possessiveness. he never tells me what to wear, who to see or anything like that. He just may say "wow you look amazing tonight, I'm going to have to fight off all those guys looking at you." or something along those lines. In my in depth dive I found jealousy and overcomplimenting as red flags. I am worried that i'm being hyper vigilant. I just don't want to get into anything like with my ex. Thanks! ❤️