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  1. Thanks everyone for the time you’ve taken to reply I’ve read everything at least two times over! Us not being together isn’t an option for me. The person that I see is incredibly loving and caring towards me and right now is struggling with things outside of our relationship as well. Maybe I need to give her some space but I also don’t want her to distance herself from me like she has done her own friends so feel like I have to put effort in just so she’s okay and knows that she’s not on her own. Despite some of the replies I’m not at all interested in ending the relationsh
  2. Thanks for your reply. I understand where you’re coming from but for me personally not having my current gf as part of my future isn’t an option. She’ll always be a part of my life no matter what. I just want to get out of this rut that we’re stuck in.
  3. Thanks for your reply. I completely understand what you're saying but I want to be able to move on now and not dwell on the past like I have for the past 6 months.
  4. Thanks for your reply. I would love to move into her place or move into a place of our own but i think that right now she has her worries- understandably. With regards to talking it out i think that the underlying anger that still surrounds the situation would be recipe for disaster. I just want to draw a line under it and be able to move forward.
  5. Thanks in advance for reading this and any help that is given! Up until around 6 months ago me and my girlfriend had the most amazing relationship I'm 22 and she's 25. I can't even begin to put into words how much I love her, how much she means to me and how she's changed my life for the better. Problems came when she moved into my house where I still live with my parents, she moved in during lockdown as she wasn't having a particularly good time at home with one thing and another. She cleared everything with my dad first to make sure that it was okay and he was more than happy wit
  6. It started during lockdown. She came to live with me so that we could see each other and spend time together which was great. She'd messaged my dad first to check it was okay with him. My dads partner and her was where the problem started really, they would ignore each other and that was sort of the start of the problem. I can understand why that annoyed him as ultimately she is a guest in his home. I think he felt like she was taking over our home and started to dislike her, her language wasn't great and her use of profanity and I think that my dad didn't like it either because he thinks that
  7. It's quite a long story. They don't disapprove of her at all and yes she is welcome in my parents home, but only to come and be with me in my bedroom, they've said they'll be civil with her but understandably she doesn't want to come here with how things are at the moment. I get along great with her parents and always have done they're really good people. I think the main problem here is how am I supposed to get my father to change his mind as I think resolving this would resolve so many more problems as well. How am I supposed to get him to understand that I need her to be happy an
  8. Yeah of course I'm 22 and she is 25. We've been together for almost two years now. The 8 months is since the argument happened between her and my dad, at this point I'm willing to put everything behind me as neither side is willing to budge and I'm stuck in the middle, I've not taken a side in the situation and tried to remain neutral but ultimately it's my dad that isn't willing enough to change to help me and us become happy again. Whenever a problem rises in the relationship it always comes back to the same root cause which is this. If i had to describe the relationship then yes I've
  9. Thanks for your reply its really helpful. Flowers are a regular with cards and any nice presents I see or anything else that makes me think of her and think might make her happy. I think that maybe I hadn't looked at what she'd said to me in a positive way- especially not from an angle that you have. I'm hoping and praying that things get back to how they once were. As a result of this my girlfriend has lost any type of sex drive which I find difficult as well. It's been over 8 months since we've had any type of sexual encounter which for me is a massive issue. Maybe with time things wi
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