sugar_coated_honey

hi, i just really need some help cuz i dont know what to do right now! about 2months ago, i went clubbing with a guy called matt, i'd known him for ages as he's one of my best friends brothers, but we'd never really u know, spoken alot! we got on really well and made out that nite. the next week i met him again, and we've been meeting up every week since, a few times this week. we get along really really well and i really like him. the trouble is i dont know where i stand, i think its really weird for him with me being m8s with his sister, coz hes a couple of years older than me. and he said shes bothered about it, but she told me she isnt! also loads of girls like him and flirt with him.. and i jst duno wot 2 do nemore! we r together but not together and i hate not knowing where i stand cuz i reallylike him. and the past 4 guys ive been with have gone off with someone else.. im just really worried it will happen agan! please help!xxxx

hi, i just really need some advice.. recently i met a guy called tom, we got on really well and he told his best friends, my friends etc how much he liked me, a few days ago we met up and really got on.. and the next day got together again, so we are kinda together but not going out yet.. but i really like him.. however yesterday it was his best friends 18th birthday and we all went out.. but tom didnt really talk to me at all and im just really confused as to if he actualy likes me now or not.. and i dont know what to do.. i know this sounds really stupid but i have been messed round by alot of guys in the past and when i told tom this he said how he would never do that to me and that he really liked me.. but with the way he was last night i dont know... i just dont want to get hurt again... please help.. xx

ok here goes... me and my ex havent spoken for a year.. he h8s me coz he thinks loads of stuff happened..last nite we were both at same party basically at partymy ex was there..avoided each other all nite..both abit cained..i was upset he jst came and hugged me..& we stood there 4 like 1/2hour jst hugging..then sat down & talked bout everything..we kissed..wer cryin in each others arms...then afta lik an hour i had 2 go..he walked me 2 car..nd it was like nothin had changed... he txt me this morning saying so we are gona be m8s now ye?.. but i dont know what to do... i love him so much still... and last night just reminded me just why and how much i miss him... please help?! lucy xx

right heres the thing........ a few weeks ago i got talking to a guy i've known my whole life but havnt seen for years and we kissed, wasnt a major thing but i see him around and i really like him. he goes to a different high school and is a grade above me, i want to get with him soo badly, he doesnt have a gf at the moment but i dont have his number and i rarely see him. if i see him i dnt no wot to say, should i be friendly or hard 2 get?wat shud i tlk about?!i seriously need to do something i like him soooo much, he lives by me and i can bump into him if i want.he told my brother he thinks im hot but what dus dat mean?! im sooo confused! HELP! PLS REPLY! xxx

i really need some advice! since i can ever remember i've been friends with my friends brother-luke. we played together in a group as kids but as you do, we drifted apart once we hit our teens. Last weekend I was at a ball and saw Luke again for the first time. We started talking and i found myself really attracted to him. We all had a lot to drink as it was a free bar and outside me and luke were alone. it was a really cold nite so he was hugging me to keep me warm when we kissed. Just afterwards his best m8 said "you'd better not have done anything, luke, you've got a girlfriend". we all went back inside and shortly after this luke had to leave, he came over hugged me again and said goodbye. ever since then i cant get him off my mind. i had a really bad breakup a few months ago and hes the only person i've liked since it happened. My brother (who was at the ball but didnt know anything had happened with me and luke) said to me a few days later "whats going on with you and luke then coz he couldnt take his eyes off you the whole night i was watching him" but i dont know what this means! he has a girlfriend but i really like him; he lives near me but i dont have his number and we go to different schools. i want something to happen with us so badly but i dont know what to do or how he feels about me (if he even feels anything at all) PLEASE HELP!!!!

hi, for quite a while now i've been growing closer to my friend luke. We are such good friends but recently, well for some time now, i've felt such strong feelings for him. He is really good looking and popular but actually really shy especially with girls and stuff. I was in a relationship about 1/2 year ago and our break up was bad, but when i'm with luke he makes me so happy inside, better than my ex ever made me feel. We are sort of flirty around each other, he came to dance with me at a ball recently, and tomorrow he has invited me out to a gig hes playing. but i dont know what all this means, many of my friends have said he must like me, but i really dont think i have a chance, and im too scared to say anything to him, and also worried what would happen if he found out i liked him, as i dont think he likes me. but i like him sooo much and he is one of my best boy m8s. what should i do!!??? please help me!! xxxxx

im really good mates with a guy called luk, he seems like my best boy m8 coz hes really easy to talk to. we r always really flirty n stuff and i really fancy him, onli thing is he doesnt want to get into a relatioonship with anyone so i dont know what to do! i got out of a really good relationship about 6months ago and hes the onli person ive liked since and i like him loads. what should i do?!! pls help!

hi theres a guy who i am quite good mates with who i have fancied for quite a while. he is very good looking and alot of girls fancy him. we r flirty mates and get on quite well. he hasnt had a girlfriend for the past year and last year he really really really liked a girl called marisa but nothing ever happened. i want to do something but i cant tell him. he gave a list of 5 girls he would like to f**k and i was no4. is that good?!?! what should i do? hes normally really shy and sweet but hes always quite flirt t me! HELP?!?!?!? pls write bak lucy xx

you need to find out exactly what is going on, is the reason your wife doesnt want to make the marriage work that she doesnt want to move?! sounds stupid but you never know, talk to her and if the case is she really has been playing you for all this time, then you should make the fresh start at your new job placement and find someone that deserves you.

hi, this may get abit long but i really need help so please read it!! basicaly i'm totally in love with my ex of 3months david. we had been going out on and off for about 4months but it had only been a really un-serious kinda relationship. then he asked me out again in April and we were together until June. In that time we fell totally in love with each other and it was the closest i have ever been to someone. Then he called me one night and told me he didnt feel as strongly for me as he used to, and we broke up. A few days later we spent 2 hours on the phone (this was on the monday nite) and on tuesday we flirted loads and he was going to ask me back out, but he didnt as he didnt feel he could trust me. things were very awkward between us the whole week. Then at the party on that saturday he pulled his best friend anna, i was well upset and was crying loads as i had always thought there was something between them. Me and anna now really dont get along, and so dave hates me. he also says im a flirt and he cud never trust me. he gives me evil looks and calls me names whenever i walk past, but dispite all this i am still totally in love with him. i cant stop thinking of him and i dont know what i can do. please please please if anyone out there has any ideas please help me coz my world is falling apart i love him more than anything. thank you xxx

right firstly if you want this girl back you need to go a different way about it-let her know that your gonna change, you cant keep ruling her life and getting jealous of her innocently seeing her ex beacuase it just wont work out. you need to think what you want - if you wana b with this girl you have to lay off abit, dont b so possessive and then maybe you guys can give it a try. xxx

hi - i was in a similar situation 2 u a few months back - my friend was hooked on drugs and no1 could seem to get through to her that she should stop - even when her best friend died of drug abuse - she took more drugs to get her through the hard time. me and a few of her other friends took her out for the day - no drugs allowed, we showed her how to have a good time again without drugs - we went shopping caught a movie and then grabbed a bite to eat. we showed her how to have fun again, and showed her all the money she was wasting, we didnt let her out of our sight for 3 months straight, and it worked. this doesnt work for everyone but it sure worked for her and maB it could work for u hope ive helped xxx

hi - why dont you just go for it! next time your walking thru the subway with her ask her if she wants to grab a coffe and a bite to eat, the worst that can happen is she says no but at least you can say to yourself that you gave it a shot - and she'll probably say yes - who would turn down a cup of coffee with a nice guy?! you've gotta take chances if u want anything to happen in your life - take them while you can or you will regret it later. xx

hi - well i would tell you to go for it - give her the present. if i'd only been out with a guy once i'd find it well sweet that he'd got me a present and it certainly wouldnt be a wrong move!! i hope this helps x x

hi, my best mate is called damien we are soo close but lately i've come to realise i fancy him loads. when ive been with him friends of mine have said "wud u eva go out with lucy" and he has replyed with "no, we;re 2 gooer m8s" and "u shud go out with gud m8s if u think its gona b a good relationship and last, but if u think it'll b a month long its not worth losin each other". the trouble is im totally in love with him and havent got a clue what to do! please dnt say i shud tell him becuz i really cant i dont know how!! friends of ours say he must fancy me 2 by the way he is around me as we spend lots of time together and always flirt, but is this just him bein friendly?!! all i know is i have to do something cause i fancy him lots but what shud i do?!! please help!!