In anwsering some of your questions, I am not offended by pornography, we use to enjoy watching it together or looking at it on the internet. He usually just watches the mainstream stuff, I hope. OUr sex life was great! I don't know what changed. He has been earsing the history so I don't know about it. He gives me excuses to why he does it, and my favorite is "I like to get ideas" wrong, he doesn't even make a move on me, he just rolls over and goes to bed. I have to be honest I don't think he does to often but I am not sure, but anyways he does it more than we have sex or screw around in a week. Which is once. I don't know what to do. The worst part about it I've seen some of the girls be perfers and their stick thin, I am not thin, but not heavy either, I struggled with an eating disorder, and the stuff he looks at makes me feel like crap. I don't know if he loves me anymore, I think he is still in love with his ex-wife. I don't know. I might have to make him pick me or porn. I want it to stop intill our sex life improves some. I don't know what to do.