Thank you for your advice, he is 35. He doesn’t have any addictions that i know of. He has not been physically abusive other than pushing me around one time. Now I understand he has been very controlling to the point were i have stopped talking to the few friends i had. I have dealt with him accusing me of sleeping with everyone and specifically an older man from my old job. All without any proof or reason. You are spot on when you say he will change his behavior for a bit because that’s exactly what he did last time i told him i was leaving. He began to act differently and accused me of givin