europa34

Yes-go to the hospital. They can give you the best diagnosis.

She doesn't really need it

Not to boast but my job brings in $400,000 a year. I don't see a financial drain coming.

It seems my girlfriend has posted Europo27

I have never been with a woman before her or even contemplated this

Isn't separation better perhaps than the incessant bickering in the house?

I'm a good mom and I will not sacrifice my kids . My husband and I both work at home and we are always with our kids. We have discussed sharing them if I were to go. He doesn't want them to know she exists, however. Her kids would be with her if she left.

63 years is way more than slight. What kind of relationship are you hoping to have?

Whoa-let me clarify a few things. I have been married for 10 years. I was very content until my husband cheated on me about 4 years ago. I was his support system and best friend through this time as he felt she took advantage of him. Although I was very tempted to pay him back-I didn't for 4 years. I sought his companionship for this last year only to have doors slammed in my face (literally). I truly love this woman. I only fell in love with her after I fell out of love with my husband. She was my friend long before we were lovers and the things I love about her are primarily emotional and mental. I don't even know if I'm good at the physical and honestly even after 10 years my husband does not fail to satisfy. I would have to give up that aspect of my life to be with her.

I met this woman over a year ago. We became really close friends. We're both married with kids and started to swap babysitting. My husband got annoyed with my spending time with someone else and I had to cut down on some of the contact. Well-after spending a summer of his ignoring me-I started to spend more time with her. I had a strong suspicion that she might be bi based on a few comments she had made. Because I was so anti all of that stuff-I started to run down all the famous people I knew were like that. I guess, weirdly enough, I thought it would bring her "out". Eventually I just asked her in a rude way if she was like "bi, or something". She said she was before and started crying. Anyway-moving on-I became nosy about her past. She started talking about all these things she would do with women and admittedly-I was turned on. She asked if she could touch me. I said "where?". So we kissed. It was kind of awkward at first and more aggressive than I had expected. She made up for the kiss by showing up at my place at 4:30 in the morning and kissing me again-more tenderly this time. Since then it seems we can't keep our hands off one another. We have slept together a few times and our husbands are irate and it is really screwing up our home life. I'm 33 by the way and she is 26. My husband and I are screaming at each other-and it is starting to affect my kids. Her husband wants to kill me and says if we move in together he will kill us both. Please offer some advice. We are in love with each other.