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  1. I am NEVER going to be an escort or work in the sex industry. I only had that stupid thought because to the way guys (and from school -shocker) talk and comment on my body. The only time I liked it was when I was with my ex boyfriend. That's completely understandable. When girls compliment my figure, I never get a perverted vibe from them. I smile, laugh, and thank them because they do it respectfully. With guys, they ogle, go into specific detail and hint towards sex afterwards. Age is also irrelevant because men who are old enough to be my parents are also disgusting towards teenager
  2. The lack of reading comprehension on this site is terrible. Did you miss where I stated that guys in college who are involved in clubs and academic pursuits can still engage in the same attitude and behavior? Girls get cold approached everywhere and still have to deal with messy guys from school. Most of my interactions, hang outs, and parties were with guys on campus. How is this too hard to understand? This is exactly why I stated that age makes a difference in the responses. Some here think that it is absolutely impossible for college educated guys to lack manners and tact towards thei
  3. 99% of guys I've had these experiences with were all educated, intelligent, and ambitious. They weren't bums that were hanging from the street corner or pick up artists that were trying to seduce me at a bar. Some were also grad students and professionals that were establishing themselves in their careers. Those particular qualities does not guarantee a guy will be a complete gentleman with a low sex drive. It generally comes down to their personality, boundaries, and respect for women. This is no different from when older men use to catcall or follow me while I was walking home from middl
  4. Awww how cute. You completely ignored half of my reply and solely focused on what I said about men being extremely horny towards the opposite sex. Which is still true. Overwhelming majority of girls my age can confirm it by encounters from our male peers. Most men also acknowledge it as well despite it being an "unfair generalization".
  5. I find it funny how you always make assumptions based off of every little detail from my posts. Especially with me acknowledging my physical attractiveness. Acknowledging it doesn't mean I don't focus or develop on other qualities of myself. Yes, a lot of guys are horny for sex regardless if I have that "mindset" or not. It's an undeniable fact.
  6. We're all strangers here so you and those other fonts can believe whatever you want. I never claimed that my experience is unusual or out of the ordinary. I was just venting. Shy or introverted girls can still attract sexualized and unwanted attention from guys they don't want. It has nothing to do with our body language. If I genuinely liked this type of attention, I would've been hooking up with every single guy and accepting every request or invitation from them. But I never have and never will. I know that beauty is a dime a dozen but I'm not going to deny that guys find me attractive.
  7. Its okay. We were both 19. Not thinking about dating right now so you're right. I have a couple of guys friends but they're not the ones I'm talking about.
  8. Lol, down to earth girls can still attract any and every type of guy. Some guys will generally approach every kind of girl regardless of her personality. Many guys from age 15 to my current early 20s have always described me as shy and reserved after getting to know me. Did that stop them from treating me like my body is all for their inappropriate sexual thoughts and pleasure? No. I could be walking around the city to get some exercise and I'll have random fools honking and yelling things to me out of their cars? Is it something I did to make them to behave that way? No. Regarding the all
  9. Some people still assume that if a girl doesn't meet the one during college, then it's either her fault or something she's doing that's preventing it from happening. It's naive to think that a studious or intelligent guy will automatically treat you better or have no red flags. I've had some friends who were played and tricked by "nice guys". Being nice and respectful isn't genuine if they're only doing it with hidden ulterior motives. It comes down to the guys character and intentions. I don't like unwanted sexualized attention. This his been happening since age 15 and no one has ever said
  10. Both actually (although I don't drink or frequent bars as much). Common misconception that most guys in college are all sweet, caring, gentlemen that want to seriously date or settle down from18-21. My ex and I actually met in of our classes during our sophomore year and were together a year and a half. After we broke up, I promised to not date and just stay single but I was attracting guys like crazy no matter how much I wanted to be alone. Then again, there's absolutely nothing wrong with casually dating and having fun at this age. I connected with another guy from school after my br
  11. The guy and I met on social media (not an OLD app). We were just engaging in conversations but he wanted to know more because he felt like we could relate from previous things we talked about. I'm not planning on meeting him because I told him I didn't want anything beyond platonic. It would be pointless, especially with the ongoing social distancing rules in my location. We're just going to Skype/ video chat. I was only nervous to message him because he was carrying on most of the conversations from the beginning. But it shouldn't matter who initiates first since it's online.
  12. Where did you get the idea that I'm obsessing over my appearance? Shouldn't that be said about the guys that constantly comment or notice it the moment I'm near them?
  13. I agree but there's always exceptions. I just tend to attract more of the extroverted/outgoing ones. The only downside of being an introvert is that I hate initiating contact to a guy. I fear I might come off "clingy" or desperate and I can't read their minds despite being the same way as them. There's currently one right now that intrigues me (online🙄). He said he was interested in getting to know me more but I'm afraid to initiate a conversation. He would always initiate the previous ones and I'd give short replies because I didn't want to appear "easy". But since I told him I'm not
  14. Pear Shape- small/average sized breasts, small waist, thick thighs, slim legs, wide big hips, and a big butt. This along with my baby face attracts good guys and ones who notice my body immediately as I'm near them. It also has nothing to do with my choice of clothing because I like to wear jeans, hoodies, t-shirts, and trousers. Some guys from my campus (before Covid) would randomly tell me how I had a nice body but I'd always ask "How could you even notice when I don't even dress revealing"? According to them, it's still noticeable in my casual and plain outfits.
  15. Before New Years and Covid, I regularly spoke to the counselor on campus. I considered it more of a venting tool rather than a solution to solve the problem. I didn't find it successful because I'd try most of the strategies she'd recommend and felt exhausted afterwards with I didn't notice any changes. I don't find any of my male professors attractive. The older guys that approach me are typically from outdoor activities, events, restaurants, or just anywhere with or without my friends. A lot of them are in their mid-late 20s & early 30s. I mainly like them because they're a little mo
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