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  1. yea, that's basically the truth, thank you for your reply.
  2. Thank you for your reply, definitely going to keep that in mind.
  3. yes, she is into men, I'm really sure.
  4. thank you for your reply, I'm going to keep that in mind, thank you again!
  5. Basically usually from, atleast it used to be - kisses, fingering or from massages
  6. Thank you for your reply, that really was good for thinking, thinking out about everything, thanks again.
  7. One of the I'm going to try with her is oral, ofcourse when the time will come, when she is going to be in the mood, right time, right place. Thank you for your reply.
  8. You could be psychologist ... yes I felt in previous relationship not being loved back as I loved her, didn't get back what I've gave her. I'm a guy with commiment, I'm not going look for other women, I'm just going to try my best, being best for her, maybe it's my foult, maybe I'm pushing her too much, maybe she isin't ready for sexual things, I should wait, and I'm going to wait for her, if nothing happens, it's fine, if she is going to want a future with me, kids, house that's really fine by me. Thank you for your reply.
  9. Thank you for your time and long reply, I'm just going to wait for her, still we're young, nor expierenced, everything is just ahead.
  10. yea, I just noticed how actually douche I am. She shouldn't be called asexual, I got frustrated, it may is my biggest nightmare, I don't know, but definitely not an excuse to call her like that.
  11. As I said for previous replies, I may have stepped it on too much for calling her asexual, I'm just comfused, but it's not an excuse to call her like that. Well she usually says that im atractive af, handsome, big muscles and stuff, soooo idk? I think she is into me, as I said previously, she would tell me straight up if I'm , and doesn't want me.
  12. It may be, I may have stepped too much calling her asexual.
  13. Well, somehow I just feel it is not the case, if she was abused, she wouldn't even wanted to try it out at first. But happens, who knows, it's one of the things that you might even wouldn't even want to tell thatfor partner
  14. Yea, sex is pretty important, but for myself more important is to be loved and cared.
  15. well, I'm sure she is happy, she is one of those people what they think that's what they will say, if she wasn't happy, she would've told me, even would've left me, for her being happy in relationship is most important. Yea, I think I may had focused on my feelings too much, I should try feel her more. Yes, I understand we all are different, saying that she is aseaxual prolly to rush to say, I'm just confused and concerned without answers, if I don't understand something, I'm always trying to understand it, doesn't matter how long it's going to take.
  16. She usually says, that doesn't matter since she doesn't feel anything, no, she doesn't really know. We haven't, becouse she is pretty shy, usually says she is shy with her body and stuff but for myself her body is sexy as hell, also she may still isin't comfortable with me, and no we haven't tried oral and vibrator, but it is one of my plans to do, ofc when she is going to be ready, I'm just going not rush things up. Yes tried focusing on clitoris.
  17. Yes she had, and I am really trying to, but I am scared that I might push her too much, thank you for your kind words ^^
  18. Yes, I was first for her.
  19. Yes, she did mentioned several times that she wish she would like to enjoy sex.
  20. I'm pretty fine, I do agree with you, that It is more important to feel loved and cared, all I am trying to find solution, to achieve in sex both, to help her and myself.
  21. Yes, answer is yes, just like in previous reply, I've already had relationships where sex was amazing, but the basic of relationships wasin't that good.
  22. Yes, her personality is one of the kind. I'm really feeling being loved and cared, sex isin't most important thing as I said previously, but as I said it has part in, and I want to fix, I want her to help start loving sex, tbh for now everything is just amazing, but this thing, that's why I want to fix, to make our relationship just like in some kinda fairy tale.
  23. Greetings. So, I've been through something I cant't really fix, or just can't find any solution, so I've thought I might should try write my problem down, and read other people opinions, so long story short - I'm at relationship with amazing person, she is kind, smart, gorgeous, and so much more, I trust her my life, I love her for sure. So we know each other since we were like 16 years old, now we early 20's, we been together as a couple year and a half, everything is just AMAZING, but one small (Maybe not that small) - sex. Since we became couple we haven't rushed physical things, we kept it
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