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  1. I'm not really the jealous type. It depends if she was emotionally enjoying him, or physically attracted to him. Emotionally/romantically enjoying him, would be an issue, the physical attraction would not. Even though we've had a great relationship throughout the entire thing, doesn't mean there hasn't been times where we're less compatible than other times, so I think it's cynical to think that you should instantly break up if you for a few weeks wonder what the "other side" would be like.
  2. Thanks for your advice. That's a perspective I haven't really thought about, but it definitely makes sense.
  3. We do live together, yes. I'm not with my girlfriend for a matter of convenience - if I want to pursue this other thing, I definitely don't care about convenience. However, like I'm trying to explain, in the perfect world I would just "forget this colleague", but it's just not that simple. If there was an off-switch, I wouldn't mind pressing it.
  4. You're right, I have no clue what this colleague would be like - but I have spoken to her about things that aren't work-related and I feel like we also click on a personal level outside of work, but it's impossible to know. It's not really a matter of physical attraction and "looking around at other women" might be a bit of an exaggeration. Like I said, this is the first ever other woman where I've felt like this. For the record, my girlfriend is the only one I've ever wanted an actual relationship with up until this point.
  5. Never have I said I don't respect what she does for a living. There's not many ways of life I have more respect for, but respecting it, is not the same as finding it interesting. Running away from a boring relationship... hmm, maybe. Career-wise, my work situation doesn't pose the biggest risk - I wouldn't lose my job over something like this, but I might cause a few issues with other colleagues. Anyways, thanks for the advice.
  6. That's correct. I've never dated anyone else in a serious manner.
  7. Hi I have an issue and it's really starting to bother my day-to-day life as I'm beginning to feel pretty unwell. The more I think about my issue, the more unwell I feel, but at the same time, my mind just keeps wandering around the same issue, thinking it over and over again. So, I've been with my girlfriend for 10 years and I love her more than anything and at the same time, she's also my best friend. We talk about everything and during the 10 years that we've been together, we've hardly ever had any arguments. For these 10 years, I've hardly been able to pin-point a single thing tha
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