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DannyM87

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  1. Totally understand that, hence why i'm comfortable with the simple fact she lost interest for what ever her reasons are and that OK as i was one to arrange dates place and times, obviously communicating them to see if it fitted her schedule to, but ultimately i did a lot of the planning sort of speak, making decisions etc. So thank you for this input, helped see some clarity in it.
  2. Thanks all! Yeah I'd already deleted all forms of contact. I suppose I was just very confused by it all, especially with her leading me on during the weeks, saying I'm important to her, how I'd in time meet her family and get on with them, how she had been waiting a long time to meet another Capricorn. Then for her to suddenly seem distant. With other things she said at the end "I don't know what it is, but I know I'll lose interest, it's my problem I dunno maybe I have bipolar or something but I easily lose interest and I hate myself for that to be honest but I can't change who I am and how I operate" I sensed BS straight away, seemed contradictory, I don't know but it's her issue and I need to accept it at face value. Thanks again, I've never been one to understand and take hints another life lesson to read between the lines sort of speak, I prefer brutal honesty, as that's how I am with others, but where all different.
  3. Hi, so recently been dating a girl I genuinely found a great connection with. Nothing was rushed and had a natural flow to things. All of a sudden she stopped talking and texting like we where doing, seemed to be too busy to meet up again. At first she messaged saying that right now ain't the right time to be getting involved with anyone, with personal reasons she had, that was done I accepted that, said we could meet up for a coffee sometime. A few weeks later I messaged asking if she wanted a quick catch up over a coffee, to which then she replied it's probably best not to as regards us becoming a couple, she feels something is missing and said she just knows she will lose interest down the road. I asked what was missing, she then claimed that I'm too nice for her. Her words where I'm one of the best men she's ever met. Then she claimed that quote, "I'm an alpha female, need an alpha male, big character like". It was only about 7 weeks of dating. So I said that she doesn't know me fully as yeah I am a character etc. I've deleted all contacts now so I can move on. I'm just asking if anyone else has experienced this as I didn't think treating a woman like a gent was a flaw. I'm very much aware of the "nice guy" I know I ain't, i stick to my guns, not afraid to say no, not a doormat etc, with her saying I'm too nice for her, I presume that she must want some sort of drama in her relationships and to be treated badly, difficult to read it fully as I didn't quite understand her reasoning, not that it's an issue as I'm absolutely fine by it. Thank you in advance.
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