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About Aleph

  • Birthday 03/08/1981
  1. I kind of figured out that she was using me but I chose not to believe it. The more truths that I hear the less I care and think about her. Since getting advice from this forum I have thought about her in a negative context. It helps in purging her memories. You are right about not falling fast. I am going to be a lot more cautious and grounded before I commit to anyone in the future. She kept in touch with a lot of her ex's. That's why it hurt when she blocked me. In hindsight, I think it was because she knew what she had done and that I would bring it up in the future. Anyway
  2. I won't say that she is a bad person. Like you say she is a 20 something but she came across as pretty mature and grounded. A friend of mine said that people like her never settle down and always blame the other person. I Will be a lot more cautious in the future. Not going to fall in love alà Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind. I was halfway through the recovery process. I told myself that it's not my fault. She came onto me and left just as abruptly. The advice you have given me has helped show her in a different light. She was an experience. Nothing else. Grocery shoppi
  3. BlueCastle. That has to to be the best advice that I have yet received. A completely different perspective. In many ways you are correct. It did burn bright and intense. And, like you said, it probably burned out for her. This helps me understand things a whole lot better. Never looked at it that way before. She did say that she was a serial monogamist. Looking back at it, I come to realise that she went around collecting experiences without any regard for the other person. I feel so much better already.
  4. Thanks, I'm glad that someone has an understanding of social etiquette.
  5. Straight to the point. I fall in love hard, once every 10 years. First time at 19, second at 29, third, one month before my 39th birthday. These are all girls that I wanted to spend my life with. I can understand why the first two did not work out but the most recent was such a heart break that I am finding it hard to cope. I'll give you a little background to the whole scenario. 38 years old, I decided that I was not going to look for anyone. Just get on with my life and enjoy myself. In February of this year, I meet a girl. She is 27. I have no interest in her whatsoever. She starts
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