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Hey Everyone About a month ago my girlfriend and I took a mutual break. She brought up the idea and I agreed. The reasons are many but mostly cause she needs to straightenup somethings in her life. Some of her priorities changed. She just needs time to clear things up and re-think about our relationship. We have been together for 3 years. We have seen each other a few times throughout the break as we have very similar interests. She works at the gym where I workout and we bike every wednesday night with out cycling club. We knew stuff like this would happen and were both ok with it. It was great seeing her. I miss her alot and am finding it very hard as she has not wanted to talk about the break or our relationship. I'm not sure why. One reason is that she is very stubborn. Is there any way that I could get her out of this stubborness?? Also this past wednesday, i had asked her if i could borrow one of her textbooks for school cause my brother needed it. She said I could go to her place and get it after the ride. I went over and we talked about what we were doing to stay busy and other stuff. Out of nowhere she just gave me a big hug and would not let go. I really enjoyed this as it has been awhile since i got to hold her. She said she still did not know what she wants. I asked her if she would like to talk some night about everything and she agree to Friday night. TONIGHT!!! I'm at work now and time is just crawling. I would like to bring her something nice tonight like flowers or something.. Would that be a good idea??? She already knows how I feel, but I just want her to realize that i am serious about my feelings. How could I tell her or show her that she is special to me and the one for me? I appreciate any input. Thanks

During the last few weeks me and my girlfriend have been having a tough time. We have been together for 2 years, and lately things have not been so good. I felt like we are not that close anymore. But one night about 3 weeks ago, we sat down and talked about it (thanx to the advice from someone in the forum). She said that she would like more space. I understood where she was coming from. So I decided to give her just that. But the last 2 weeks have been hard on me. We only live like 20 minutes away from each other and go to the same university, but I have only seen her twice, and have not even talked on the phone with her that much. I have been keeping busy, such as hanging out more with my friends, and working on things that I always wanted to do. Last night I just complained that I really missed her and wanted to see her more. I knew it would be hard for me to give her more space, cause we always hung out togther alot, almost everyday. She told me last night that the reason why she wanted more space was because she said she put somethings on hold and she did not want to do that anymore. She said she wanted more time to hang with her friends, study more to get better grades (dont know why cause she gets 90's) and train for biking even more. Now I feel like I have been stopping her from doing things she loves doing. I feel like I've been a bad boyfriend. I now that I never stopped her from doing things that it was her own decision. She did do those things but not as often. But I guess now she wants to do them more. I have told her that its hard for me not seeing you all the time and she said "I know it is". It seems like she is not having a hard time with this. But I'm sure she is but not telling me. Today I feel like the more I tell her that I miss her and want to see her more, like I'm driving her away even more. How could I stop myself from complaining to her that I dont see her enough? I have been trying hard not to have any outbusts like the one I had last night, but even though I am keeping myself busy its just that I find it hard. I'm not sure if any of this makes any sense to anybody but me, but please try to respond. I just need someone to talk to. Thanks

If he really loves you then he would not pressure you into doing anything you did not want to. He would wait until you are ready. I hope this helps.

Me and my girlfriend have been getting on each others nerves lately. One night last week everything each other said seemed to piss the other person off. She went away on that weekend to visit her friend out of town. With the free time I had without my girlfriend I thought that when she got back I should have a serious talk with my girlfriend. We have been going out for over 2 years and we never really had any serious fights. We always had alot of fun together. We love being with each other. Some times I get a little mad, when she does not want to do anything or she does not have time to do anything. I usually just pout, and get over it. Well when she got back we had a serious talk. She brought up the issue of taking a break. I did not like the issue of taking a break cause I knew that we would end up back together anyways. I agreed to the issue of taking a break and left her house. But before she left she started to cry as did I. We then had a good cry together and then decided to sleep on it. Well last night we decided not to take a break. Would it be a good idea to take a break?? Do breaks really work?? But when we were talking it seemed like she was telling me something. She finally told me that she would like more space. What does that mean?? and how do i give it to her?? Thank you to anyone who reply's.

i am getting the same from my girlfriend. she acts like everything is normal but i get the feeling that something else is going on in her head. perhaps whoever replys to this can help me too.

hey guy arent women confusing?? well my advice for you would be to just forget her. i had a woman like that before. she said that she was just friends with her exes or her male friends as she called them. then i found out she was f**cking them. if i were you i would get out before you get to attached to this woman. there are many other women out there who like to have an honest man.

My girlfriend is hounding me. We are both 2nd year universtiy students, and she wants to go away this summer to work. I already have a job for this summer here, where we live. She says i'm not excited or interested that she wants to go away. I wouldnt mind if she went, is what I told her, but she seems determined that I dont want her to go. We have been together for over 2 years and of course i wouldnot want her to go, but it would not hurt me alot. 4 months is a long time. I thinks i'm just not interested in stuff she does. How would you other guys feel?? What could i tell my girlfriend to make her not mad a me??