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  1. Other people don't foresay, ""warn" me but they say he can be a little too clingy sometimes. There's a few people that say he's controlling. I've never had anyone flat out warn me to leave or etc. I mean, we sometimes do the BDSM thing in the bedroom, but not all of the time. As for 'allowed' um idk he says I'll be single if I do have the social media, or he says that I won't have a phone for long if I put the passcode on, if I wear leggings to work he just keeps asking who I'm with, if I defend my job he says that I put work first or that the job pays me peanuts (it's not that bad of a job) or that it'll be what breaks us up.
  2. Im literally here asking for advice because I don't understand 1 why it's okay to me and 2 if it's okay or not. I'm a excellent mother and thanks to you and the other people saying to remove my kid I will NEVER ask for help ever again
  3. I think it's more that you're jealous of this girl- it is okay to be jealous of her. Don't feel bad for being jealous. If you're worried you're not fun, then do more fun things. Instead of watching tv all night, go do something together. Its good you are open with him. You're not telling him he can't have female friends, you're just being honest about your feelings which is good. He sounds like he responded well. You seem to be young, just really try to look into healthy relationships, or about self esteem, and trust in relationships. It'll be okay.
  4. So, my boyfriend checks my phone (not religiously, but here and there) I'm not allowed to have a passcode on my phone without him knowing the passcode even though he's allowed to have one. His reason is bc he's always had a password and when I got with him I didn't have a password on my cell so why do I want one now? He gets jealous and makes comments if I wear leggings to work, if I don't anwser my cell at work he will accuse me of cheating or caring more about work than him and sometimes leaves me voicemails calling me names or saying hell kill me and whoever I'm cheating with. I quit my last job for him, now I have a job I am in love with and he wants me to quit because he says it's detrimental to our relationship. He doesn't say to quit, but he says, "This job will be what breaks us up if you stay." Which he said at my last job too. He's made it clear he wants me a stay at home and makes me feel guilty for in his words "pawning my baby off" to go work everyday when I don't have to because he makes good money. I'm not allowed to have social media, though he has one. The main one that pisses me off is the job thing. I will never quit another job bc of him. The social media makes me mad depending on the day. Is it okay that I stay with him since it really doesn't bother me that he's controlling? Or can someone explain why it's bad to stay even though I'm okay with it? We've been together for a bit, my child is not biologically his btw. He does have great qualities not listed in this as well. Thank you.
  5. I can't get in until Monday and even then at only ten days late they don't even usually see you for a test yet because it could come back positive, but it also might not depending on when you ovulate. My one child showed positive not until around six weeks pregnant and the other not until about three-ish months pregnant.
  6. I'm on the NuvaRing and I mean I totally admit I've missed putting it in by a day or so at times, but I'm usually pretty good. I've never went like a whole week without putting it in when I was suppose to or anything. Idk it depends on how far you ovulated during your cycle when it comes to getting positives. I have one child who didn't show positive until six weeks and than my oldest didn't show until around three months because my levels of hcg were low and increasing slowly. I may or may not be. I'm not trying for a baby, but if I am pregnant again were not panicking or anything.
  7. I'm on the NuvaRing and I mean I totally admit I've missed putting it in by a day or so at times, but I'm usually pretty good. I've never went like a whole week without putting it in when I was suppose to or anything. Idk it depends on how far you ovulated during your cycle when it comes to getting positives. I have one child who didn't show positive until six weeks and than my oldest didn't show until around three months because my levels of hcg were low and increasing slowly. I may or may not be. I'm not trying for a baby, but if I am pregnant again were not panicking or anything.
  8. I can't get in until Monday and even then at only ten days late they don't even usually see you for a test yet because it could come back positive, but it also might not depending on when you ovulate. My one child showed positive not until around six weeks pregnant and the other not until about three-ish months pregnant.
  9. Just a update. I started spotting brown this morning. Only when I wiped. Now there's a bit more than spotting, but I haven't had to use more than a liner. It's a bit more reddish now than this morning, but it is bright period red and it's not even close to the same flow I usually have for a period. I called my doctor and they're suppose to call back by Monday. I took another test, but was negative again. Having a bit cramping on and off.
  10. I wasn't sure if nine days late is too early before going to the doctor about it. I get it's normal to sometimes be late. I just wasn't sure.
  11. I am nine days late of my period, I took two pregnancy tests, and both were negative? Is this too early to take a pregnancy test? I used first response.
  12. I appreciate this so much. I feel like there's so much pressure on people to be a certain way. I remember at thirteen forcing myself not to play with my little pet shops because I thought I was too old. I think I'm going to buy a used one and if anyone says anything I'm just going to say, "Hey, it's my money anyways." Lol
  13. I turn 23 next month. I am a mom of a 2 year old. I never had a american doll because I was too scared to ask my mom for one due to the prices. I bought my daughter a bitty baby. I wouldn't play with the doll, but I could see collecting them and maybe changing their outfits now and then or setting up scenes to display them as. Should I just forget it and move on? Am I being ridiculous? Idk how I'd justify this to my husband lol. Be honest even if it's brutal.
  14. I do not know. I am in counseling and it's what my therapist has been trying to figure out with me. I always had healthy relationships up until my last boyfriend. Idk. I guess I felt it was my fault that with this guy I put my hand on him first. He breaks my things and screams at me and belittles me. He makes me feel guilty for being a working woman and though I am a small 22 yr old girl he often comments about my weight. He gives me dirty looks if I am eating something unhealthy and makes comments or if I eat too much he will disgusteding say, "did you eat enough?" Or tell me I've gotten bigger. I have left him in the past. He usually responds with violence not towards me but towards objects and will tell me, "go back to your ex who beat you. He's a better man than I obviously." I have no interest in my ex. I had a restraining order and moved away and cut all contact with him so idk why he says that tbh. My counselor is aware of his behavior and that's been are main thing to work on. I guess I just always thought that either I caused his erratic behavior or that e was just blunt or sometimes I'd think, "He doesn't hit or cheat on me so it isn't that bad as long as I walk on egg shells with him." When I would try to gain back power example when he made me delete my social media or take off my phone password when he yet still has a password or when he wouldn't let me sign my name on the land we bought together he told me I was being petty or that it was obvious Facebook was more important to me than he was. Then tbh I believed him. So, idk why I stay. Sorry for the long response.
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