Leahjade

He’s not in his life due to other reasons and no I’ve not once forced him into a stepfather role, he’s taken it upon himself to look after him like his own and I’ve never told him he had to do that. Me and him have still had time to ourselves and have had couple time over the years. Like I said before he made every decision in regards to being a “family”

So I’ve been with my partner for almost 3 years and we’ve had our ups and downs like any other couple. He’s raised my son since he was 3 months old and I cannot thank him enough for this but lately since we’ve decided to give everything one last shot it feels like he’s just abandoned everything. I’ve pulled him aside on how I feel many times and it feels like he just doesn’t care anymore. He’s always saying we argue although we don’t and he’s always blaming me for things I haven’t even done or even know about. Another thing that brings me down is that it feels like he doesn’t want to ma