My boyfriend keeps staring at other girls in Relationship Advice Posted July 17, 2020 There are two things going on here imo. One is yes he checks out other girls. As do many guys, some are a bit more discreet about it. He doesn’t think it’s an issue because yes in his mind he will not cheat on you. That’s probably true. Secondly it’s your insecurity. I’m only guessing here but perhaps you are the one to notice a good looking girl first based on your own self esteem and insecurity. Then you watch to see how he will react when he sees her? And him noticing and looking at her is magnified in your mind? The guy straight up tells her he’s wondered what these women he’s ogling would be like as his girlfriend or in an intimate setting. That is not her mind magnifying things. That is a very point-blank statement saying he’s thinking of what life would be like with these women instead of his GF. OP, this guy seems very disrespectful to your feelings. The sheer level of disrespect is on another level. Lose the loser.