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  1. lol hes just saying that so he can have sex with you over and over again and make you feel guilty.
  2. yeah so now my x wants me back within the same week of the breakup. she said she made a big mistake breaking up with me and that she wanted a second chance. she was pleading and crying on the phone with me, so i just told her out of pity that next time when i meet you you'll get your chance. so she was excited but the day before i really thought about it and the next day i told her i wasn't sure anymore though i already promised her that she'll have her chance. so she started crying infront of me (first time that is) with the whole drama scene. anyways like a week passed and she was always making the moves and approaching me. so i told her give me time and space and i'll make up my mind and tell you the answer when im ready. well, without even really thinking about it i said "yes" one day. I know how i felt towards her changed and i cared less about her and i just made a quick decision without even really putting my mind to it. so i guess thats ok because i didnt want to get back those feelings i had for her before so i wouldnt feel bad if she did something like that again and that i'd be already prepared. so tell me what should i do with her now. would it be ok if i used her and then got rid of her some time after i got tired or tell her the truth on what i feel for her now and about my confusion. (still not sure about friendship/relationship)
  3. Well, here's my story... my x broke up with me recently. She told me that she wasn't ready to be in a relationship with me and wished that we could stay friends. I felt betrayed and worthless after hearing that from her and told her that it was over; "if ur not ready to be in a relationship with me then i'm not ready to have a friendship with you." I was in NC with her. Within the same week she told me that she regretted ever breaking up with me and that she wanted a second chance. I told her i wasn't sure if i loved her anymore after what she just did and that it was unlikely that we would ever get back together as a couple. I'm not sure if i can ever trust her again after what she just did and if i'll be able to forgive her. So, guys i need ur help. Should i just be friends with her or give her another chance. I'm not even sure if i love her anymore; probably i feel resentment towards her. My heart says "yes" but my mind says "no". What should i follow? I'm leaving out the fact about the crying and the sobbing she went through after her horrible mistake.
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