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sirdesancti

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  1. All the signs pointed to her liking me. Texting me good morning. Mentioning about the next time we hang out. Sending me pictures of herself. And she had a real interest in what I was doing and things in my life. When she told me she was not ready for romance, she did tell me she liked me. Today for the first time she did not text me. My two thoughts are I came on to strong, or that she got scared, as she admitted she is not used to being romantic.
  2. So, I am a bit confused. Met this girl on Bumble and we almost immediately hit it off. Really flowing and natural conversations. From this we started to text everyday. We went on a date, and It went really well. She texted me that night about how much she enjoyed it. We even planned a follow up. Unforntuately her roommate got covid so we had to cancel. Anyways, we had kept texting all the time, I was never pushy or clingly, just went with the flow with what she was saying. The most I ever did was tell her that I liked her. She constantly told me how much she liked talking to me and how sweet I was and how good it felt that I was good to her. When I asked her to hang again, she said she thinks she would like that, but that she felt she was'nt in the right place for anything romantic right now. She said she likes me and still wants to hang. She continues to text me everyday, but much more brief and fewer messages than before. For context, she had told me she has only been in one relationship for like 6 months and that she struggles with being vunerable. She had also told me she gets skittish around dating and walks away from good situations, but she hoped I 'bare with her.' She has a new job and tells me she feels overwhelmed with her responsiblities and she feels like she is not giving her friends and family enough time. She has also been dealing with depression. Anyways, I just need some advice. It just is so confusing because she went from all in, texting me all the time, showing clear signs of interest, and saying how much we vibe together, to basically nothing at all. I feel perhaps I came on to strong, but truthfully the most I ever did was tell her I liked her, never smothered or anything like that. She will still wish me a good day at work and ask me how my day was. What my main thought is that she got scared of the idea of a relationship or romance, explained by her that she is not very good with it. I dont know! How to proceeed?
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