Southbay25

Me and my ex had been going out for 3 years, all of the sudden she needed a break, she says she didn't like always having to tell me what she was doing when she went out with friends. But Yet she always did it to me. She broke up with me 3 weeks ago. At first She wanted nothing to do with me and didn't even want me to talk to me. Now we talk like every 5 days for more, she says that she misses me and that she likes talking to me. She brings up stuff from the past about us. she says she wants to see me but then its like she doesn't want to see me right now. What is going on? I love this girl with all my heart. I want to get back together and work this out but she's not really telling me how she feels. Its like playing hard to get. What stage is she going though? Should I stay true to her for awhile just incase she wants to work it out. Need help.

Why I Don't like Her Drinking is B/c Her Mom And Dad Are alcoholics, it runs in the family. Thats why I hate to see her do this to herself. Its okay to drink but not every weekend or during the week. I just worry about her future, I want to see her happy and successful. I always let her go out with her friends I was never controling. thanks for the help.

I Have Been Going Out With This Girl For 3 Years We Broke Up About 2 weeks ago. I Have Been Going Out With Here Since She Was 15 And I was 17. When She Turned 18 Everything Started Going Down hill. She had gotten new friends and starting drinking and smoking a lot. She knew I wasn't in to that and i tried to stop her from messing up her life. I have seen a lot of my friends lifes gone to waste b/c all they did was party and drink all the time. Anyways I Don't Know Why She Left me. I was a good guy. I gave her the most respect that I could give someone. I always made her feel good about her self. I Told how beautiful she was and how special she was to me. I would buy clothes pay her bills, do her laundry I would just baby her. I always took her out. About 1 year ago she moved for Ga where we lived to IL b/c of her mom. I put everything on hold and went up thier with her to start a new life. I don't get why she broke my heart. I gave her all the love i could give her. There will be no guy that treated her like i did. Do you think we are over? We Talk on the phone but its like she don't care about us no more and how I feel. She always too busy with her friends. Whats Going On with her? Need Help? What Should I Do?

My Girlfriend and I broke up about a two weeks ago. She was the one that broke up with me. We had been going out for three years, never had a problem until she meet these two new friends(girls) plus her mom doesn't help her any. She started to move away from me and always hanging out with her new friends. We broke up but now she if off drinking and smoking which she never did. She use to tell me getting drunk is stupid. She has a bad attitude and doesn't care about things anymore. Her mom and dad are ALCOHOLICs and doesn't want me to talk to her. What should I do, I scared that something is going to happen to her. I love this girl with all my heart. She needs help.