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  1. I already wrote this to the other person but that's not the full context of our relationship. Why should his safety be concerned when I'm not some freako who looked up his address and came unannounced??? I knew I shouldn't have tried to condense things and should have just be vague with my question. Here is some more context but not nearly all of it since we have alot of history. We actually have the same circle of friends and met in person on a Pax trip back in 2018. Later on we talked for 6 months pretty much each day , a majority on video call. We made it official in February o
  2. You are unreasonably harsh. I'm sorry but I was hurt enough to have to clarify ALOT. I knew I shouldn't have posted this without more context since it's a long history and story. I'm an idiot for expecting others to give a full scope look. Plus this only reopened wounds when I was healing. ... We actually have the same circle of friends and met in person on a Pax trip back in 2018. Later on we talked for 6 months pretty much each day , a majority on video call. We made it official in February of last year. It's not that he "wasn't interested". Before all this happened we planned for 5 day t
  3. That's uncalled for and real rude tbh to say all that but , I didn't give full context so that was my bad. He's known me for 6 months and we met in real life a few time so Im not unhinged or out of line. I was also not uninvited , he was supposed to be part of my planned trip but backed out during an argument.
  4. You are unreasonably harsh. I'm sorry but I was hurt enough to have to clarify ALOT. I knew I shouldn't have posted this without more context since it's a long history and story. I'm an idiot for expecting others to give a full scope look. Plus this only reopened wounds when I was healing. ... We actually have the same circle of friends and met in person on a Pax trip back in 2018. Later on we talked for 6 months pretty much each day , a majority on video call. We made it official in February of last year. It's not that he "wasn't interested". Before all this happened we planned for 5 day
  5. I’m not sure how to directly reply to someone ughhhhahhh mobile is weird
  6. It’s not as bad these days! We were dating for a month but were talking for 6 months. It was long distance. He lived couple states away from me! The break up was him realizing he needed to focus on himself to better take care of himself and wanting to focus on his career of streaming from home. I respected it but it’s just hard when you both still have feelings for each other but they are closed off. It just hurt cause when he hurt me I forgave him yet when I “sleight” him I get removed?? After our break up he didn’t remove me and just opted for not looking at my stuff....so this reall
  7. What would you even feel or think in this situation? This is quite a tale so please bear with me. I had the worst and basically the only true fight I’ve ever had with my ex back in December. It’s too much detail to go into but Ill try to condense. We had picked up talking again for a few months like we did when we were flirting and in our relationship after extensively reforging a connection on a group Pax trip months after our breakup. I was supposed to hang out with him in Oregon for his birthday but we had an emotionally charged fight 2 days before my trip so he changed his mind. He had
  8. If you had an immensely loving relationship, you guys enriched the each other’s lives had crazy chemistry ( both physically and mentally) but the other person isn’t prepared to give you a relationship right now due to learning to manage their illness better ( type 1 diabetes ) and in need of more personal growth... I mean a hefty load . He revealed to me on a heavy call one night while crying he has anxieties ontop of anxieties , doesnt know who he is, that others have their together but he doesnt, After he turns his streams off will just sit and stare are his screen for a bit , misses his p
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