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Nathalie91

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  1. I have been hooking up with a friend of mine for the past two months. We were already good friends before we started sleeping together. Yesterday he joked and said that he never put any effort in the sex. I was quite hurt by that and started to ask what was really going on. At first he didn’t want to tell because I probably wouldn’t understand. He told me that it took him effort and commitment to sleep with me. During the act he enjoyed it because he likes sex a lot in general. I am trying to understand what he means, because this sounds pretty bad to me.To me it sounds like he only did it to
  2. I don't think I would still have been with my ex even if I didn't know him. I knew that relationship wasn't good for me, I didn't break it off for so long because I was afraid. Right now I am happy I did and I want to develop a real and healthy relationship with someone. I agree with you that I shouldn't be chasing him. If he is interested I am sure he will pursue me. I was too drowned in the feelings he gave me because it was something that I was craving for. I think I should focus on my new job and heal myself as well first.
  3. Thank for all the good advise everyone. Things have become a bit clearer for me right now. I have been asking myself the question if I was the one that wasn't open for a relationship. I agree that I am very skiddish, not only with love but overall. My self esteem is very low, which makes me over analyse everything. I am afraid to get hurt, but I feel like I am already hurting because I have developed feelings for him. Also my relationship with my ex ended long a ago before actually breaking up with him. He was a best friend to me, he tried to prolong our relationship by saying that he could
  4. Sorry for the lack of information. I wanted to change it but I was already past the 30 min changing time. So here is the longer version: There is a guy with who I share a good friendship with. We haven't known eachother for very long, but got along very well immediately. He told me that things weren't going well with his girlfriend. I was in the same boat, I broke up after a 9 year relationship. After he said that they broke up he has become more touchy with me and he said that spending time with me comforted him. We recently went on a 5 day trip (he was our guide) and shared a meaningfull
  5. There is a guy with who I share a good friendship with. He told me that things where bad with his girlfriend. After they broke up he has become more touchy with me and he said that spending time with me comforted him. One thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. I genuinely like this guy very much but I am unsure why he is doing this. The break up has had a big impact on him but the way he is caring for me makes me very confused.
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