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  1. LSL

    Breakup

    Yeah honestly exercise has helped so much physically and mentally just relaxes you. I was a bit like that when my breakup ended because on sundays I was also used to going out and doing things etc with my ex so it took a bit of time getting used to being on my own but now most sundays I get up and go a 6 mile walk and it sets me up for the day. Yeah cleaning aswell always keeps you busy lol Thank you keep your head high too. I always just think everyone has been through what we have been through and there could be alot worse things out there we should be glad we have our health and fami
  2. LSL

    Breakup

    Aww I hope you are ok, it's one of the toughest things to go through isnt it. Always just think though there is light at the end of the tunnel :) that's what I keep trying to remind myself keep moving forward. I've found exercising helps me alot too and going long walks always helps to clear the head x
  3. LSL

    Breakup

    Yeah I think I am doing alot better and in a better place since I first posted here when it all happened and alot of people said they can see the progress I've made. I'm just trying to focus on buying a flat and continuing with the driving lessons and hopefully one day I will meet the right person
  4. LSL

    Breakup

    Yeah I dont think i have had the closure to move on fully and you right it's about trusting someone again because I fully trusted him and then look what happend if that makes sense? I think just this first year I found it difficult not having someone there because you are used to all those years having that person by your side but I am adjusting. Dont get me wrong it's been the bloody hardest year of my life and I've surprised myself at how strong I am didnt know I had it in me. Thank you that means alot to me it really does :)
  5. LSL

    Breakup

    I think I have made alot of progress since last year and I dont have him on social media etc, alot better than I was at the start of the year It was a very sudden breakup which shocked me and alot of people didnt expect it so i think sometimes I just wonder why did he do it but I will never get the answers. I would like to meet someone new because I know I deserve better than the way I was treated but I think its just fear of meeting someone new again.
  6. LSL

    Breakup

    Thank you cant believe it's nearly been a year now. I honestly didnt think I would be this strong over the past year and getting myself through it think I have surprised alot of people Just need to keep pushing through. I'm not sure if he will be expecting a birthday message from me but I wont be.
  7. LSL

    Breakup

    Yeah I think I just feel silly getting upset sometimes but I dont have as much down days as I used to I think when it is his birthday i will just keep myself busy so I am not thinking about it too much? Is that the best thing to do? And i definitely wont be messaging him a birthday message
  8. LSL

    Breakup

    Thanks I am so much better than when I posted months ago just trying to move on with life but I think because this will be the first year for my birthday not having him there and not being there for his it feels a bit strange
  9. LSL

    Breakup

    Hope everyone is well I havent posted for some time in here but is it normal after nearly a year of being split up after a 6 year relationship to still have some down days? I am so much better since Iast posted on here, still doing my fitness and now started driving lessons but the past couple of days I have been feeling down about the break up, it is my ex birthday in a couple of weeks and I'm not sure why I am feeling sad. We haven't spoken since March before lockdown so I defo wouldnt text him happy birthday as the guy broke my heart but Have any of use had this feeling before?
  10. Hope everyone is well I havent posted for some time in here but is it normal after nearly a year of being split up after a 6 year relationship to still have some down days? I am so much better since Iast posted on here, still doing my fitness and now started driving lessons but the past couple of days I have been feeling down about the break up, it is my ex birthday in a couple of weeks and I'm not sure why I am feeling sad. We haven't spoken since March before lockdown so I defo wouldnt text him happy birthday as the guy broke my heart but Have any of use had this feeling before?
  11. Yeah I know deep down he wasnt the right person for me. At the time I did and then when I look back at it now I can see he wasnt
  12. I have never thought about it that way that's a good saying, maybe in a years time I will look back and laugh at how silly I was being. In a years time I may be back on the forum saying I have found a new man haha
  13. Yeah I do still love him and I wish I could just click my fingers and not feel like that anymore but it is so hard and I just hope I dont feel like this forever
  14. Just the shock of how it ended I think is making it harder for me
  15. Yeah I think just because some people have said to me you should be over it by now and then that panics me that they might be right Yeah I'm focusing on buying my own place I've worked alot to try save the deposit and I've lost over 2 stone in weight and just trying to keep busy
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