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  1. I've posted a few times: Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to see me and clear the air but I declined. I ended up responding to one of his messages once and for all about 2 months later. He replied to what I said and then said it has 'been very difficult from his end. He felt it was the most appropriate thing was to break up, which has been really hard and he misses me all the time. But what's the alternative?
  2. I've posted a few times and recently about my boyfriend missing me. Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to see me and clear the air but I declined. I ended up responding to one of his messages once and for all about 2 months later. He replied to what I said and then said it has 'been very difficult from his end. He felt it was the most appropriate thing was to break up, which has been really hard and he misses m
  3. I've posted a few times and recently about my boyfriend missing me. Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to see me and clear the air but I declined. I ended up responding to one of his messages once and for all about 2 months later. He replied to what I said and then said it has 'been very difficult from his end. He felt it was the most appropriate thing was to break up, which has been really hard and he misses m
  4. Thank you, sorry I just saw this. Well it's hard to tell with my ex, I'm just sitting back atm. He hasn't said that he wants to see me/get back together so I assume nothing is happening in that regard..?
  5. Broke up? We were never in a relationship. Haha, what have I done that would warrant a restraining order.
  6. 26f, 35m. Had been talking to this guy for a few months prior to the meeting. He said he is open to a relationship but not with anyone (same). I ended up thinking that he was a bit too forward in the kindest way and I had gotten out of a relationship a month or so beforehand. We had some really great chats. I think he took it a bit negatively and blocked me on social media. I had noticed that he unblocked me on social media so I reached out saying it was probably a miscommunication. He responded positively and we had our first date. Said to me to come to his which we did, we ordered food to hi
  7. Happened tonight yes. He didn't say he made a mistake/wants to get back together, no.
  8. Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to see me and clear the air but I declined. I ended up responding to one of his messages once and for all about 2 months later. He replied to what I said and then said it has 'been very difficult from his end. He felt it was the most appropriate thing was to break up, which has been really hard and he misses me all the time. But what's the alternative?'
  9. I haven't spoken to my ex in almost 3 months since he broke up with me late last year. He wanted to catch up and free the air but I declined. I'm in NC now. Any stories of being in NC for long periods of time and getting back together?
  10. Yes I do agree and this is what I suggested when him and I first started talking, I didn't like that he was offering for me to come to his (during a lockdown however) and he worded that it was nothing nefarious. I also indicated that I'm traditional about it and that was what sort of made up stop talking I think to some extent. I think I'll offer at least a dinner outside of his house (if that's only what his schedule can allow) and see how he responds.
  11. Good point and this is what I'm concerned about as well. Do you think this is up to me to suggest something outside of his house? On the second date, he did say we could go out to eat but then we decided on eating in. I could ignite this more and see how he responds.
  12. I understand your point. He does reach out and I would say majority of contact is initiated by him. I mean we spoke for a few weeks straight from our first date to our second, with maybe the odd 2 or 3 days where we didn't speak. I am over the break up yes. Last relationship was a year of dating.
  13. What do you mean sorry? Are you referring to this current person I've been on 2 dates with or my ex partner?
  14. Had been talking to this guy for a few months prior to the meeting. He said he is open to a relationship but not with anyone (same). I ended up thinking that he was a bit too forward in the kindest way and I had gotten out of a relationship a month or so beforehand. We had some really great chats. I think he took it a bit negatively and blocked me on social media. I had noticed that he unblocked me on social media so I reached out saying it was probably a miscommunication. He responded positively and we had our first date. Said to me to come to his which we did, we ordered food to his (very ge
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