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  1. Ok, so this is where I am now. I stayed with my family and have spent almost all of my savings keeping my bills up. I have had no luck with a job, however I do have one out of state if I want it. I can leave now and take the sure thing or take my chances and stay with family. I know I will have to work two jobs (if I am able to find work). Seems like and easy decision...go where there is work but Without going into details, it's very hard to leave family right now.
  2. Been there, done that. Get out, he is not going to change. Yes, forgive him and move on.
  3. I went thru similar with my ex. I stayed after I found out he cheated in hopes he wouldn't do it again, but it never stopped. It actually got worse. I wasted time waiting on him to change. Don't waste your time. Have more respect for yourself than I did. I wish now that I had left sooner. Trust me, you will be happier and you will find someone who will love and appreciate you! Good luck
  4. Hi all! Over the years there has been a lot of death in my family. It seems like it has come to the point where there is a fear of losing someone else at any moment. I think most of us in the family are feeling this way. We just want to hold on to each other, stay close by, do our best to look out for each other and always make sure to say I love you and never walk away without saying goodbye. These are things we should all do but maybe some of this is out of fear that it may be the last goodbye. I have another post here about moving away and this is one problem I have with moving...a fear of what might happen while I'm away. Will someone close pass, will I pass....I want to live my life without this fear but I'm not getting any younger, and what if...... I don't want any regrets or broken hearts. Is there anyone here who can relate???
  5. I agree any job for now so that I at least have some income but jobs here are few and far between and it has been 4 months. I am trying to hold on to enough of my savings to have a months rent and deposit but I will soon have to start dipping into that. Staying with family members is not easy on either of us. What it comes down to is stay close to family (which means a lot) and struggle to make ends meet or go out of state and make a good living. I guess its a matter of a broken heart verses surviving.
  6. Hi, I am 50 yrs old and been divorced for 2 yrs. I am now trying to make it on my own which is not easy! I have 2 grown children and a grandson and granddaughter, ages 1 and 4. I am very close with all my family...parents, siblings, other relatives and definitely my kids and grands. We all live in close proximity, however at the moment I am staying with family members because I can't afford to be on my own yet. I moved away (out of state) for a little while because I found a job that paid enough for me to support myself. The job was very stressful but I liked the area very much. I put away enough money to give myself a few months to find work and came back to where my family is. Unfortunately, I haven't found work at decent pay. I can possibly move out of state again and go back into a stressful job, be away from my family 😢, but make the money I need, or stay here and hopefully find 2 jobs that will at least help me to get out on my own. I am struggling with what to do. My family wants me here too. I don't want to have regrets. What should I do? Any advice is appreciated!
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