There are several possibilities of what is occuring and here are two main ones: 1.) You have mentioned that her company is laying her off the department. She is possibly just really stressed at the current moment and doesn't feel like saying much yet. Also, it's likely she didn't want to let you know about the interview because she meant what she said about feeing pressured about being possibly not getting the job. To tie everything up, she's just going through a rough time and just needs some time to not feel as overwhelmed. 2.) It is likely that she has or is losing interest. And it'