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Well there really isnt much to say about it just i wanted to no what girls look for in guys. but i did have a couple more questions. If a girl turns you down and says something like "I just wanna be friends" is that a total shut off no chance of getting together netime soon or is that still "open territory"? And another question. I was just curious the saying "it isnt the size that matters its the way u use it" true? I mean (hypotheticlly of course) if a guy is 2 inches hard but knows how to use it good does that mean that it dosent matter that its like the size of a babys? and my final question. Ive looked all around the internet for the avrage "size" and im in the medium-large (avrage medium was like 5.5 to 7.5 yea really narrows it down) what would you say the small, small-medium, medium, medium- large, large, and large + is?

none of the traits (short of cleaning and cooking and those type of things) should exceed the guys because us males like to be more dominate funnier, not always smarter a good handy man etc. as for looks some guys like big boobs some like small most like big but im a minority i guess shaved not alot of pubig hairs not taller then him not over doing the make-up atleast half way decent looks longer hair (short hair is a BIG turn off for me) not abnormally large feet or hands or any part of the body (execpt boobs sometimes) abnormally big or small not yellow teeth not really long nails (just get in the way) for me as long as shes half-way decent looking and has a good personality (funny, serious when needed, understanding etc.) then i usually wouldnt turn her down but she has to have a good personality its a MUST for me. and for one more hint dont smoke or drink bad breath good luck if your looking!

Well i asked this girl out awhile ago and she says that theres nothing i can do to help her decide if she likes me or not but is there something i can do and she just wants to see if i will do anything? so far im confused by that so i have just been standing up for her and talkin to her and comforting her when shes sad. should i just keep doing that or more? if so what?

You could always ask them to hang out with you. Go to the movies, mall, play a sport whatever you guys are interested in but if you have no girl friends (as in a female FRIEND) then i wouldnt go to the movies with a bunch of guys thats a little bit weird. I had the same problem 4 years ago but then i just asked them now they ask me to go places before they thought that i didnt like to go places or that i wasent allowed to.

I'm not positive for the reason but i think that it's because the guy is supposed to ask the girl out and if she really likes him and he hasen't asked her out she might just ask him. All that I know is that they DO take it harder because every time it happens to one of my friends i have to listen to it thank god it dosen't happen often!

i get what u mean markers its like you want to know what shes thinking or ask her all the time but you dont want to be a pest about it

Well about 2 weeks ago i asked someone out and she said that she wasent sure if she wanted to date yet (she just got out of a bad relationship). a couple days ago she started to want to talk to me even more then usual which is kind of hard to do since we always talk 8) and she keeps givin me playful hints. what do you think she is thinking? yes no or undecided? one more thing were going to the movies on saturday if u say yes to this do you think that shes going to let me no in the movies ?

its not to hard to do just walk up to them and say hey and stand in the group that they are in thats what i do dont be nervous just because its a girl.

Im sure that she has been kissed before im 14 and the only people that i know that havent been kissed are the weird people and the how do i put it no so good looking.

Well I asked someone out about 4 days ago and she said she didn't know if she wanted a boyfriend at the time so i posted something about that and then i decided to ask her if i had a chance or not and she said ofcourse i do she just needs time to think. so anywaise i asked her to go see a movie with me next saturday and she agreed what should i do if i dont get a response about if shes ready or not should i make a move?

Well last night i asked someone out and i got a response that sorta confused me. I asked her out then she said "idk i kinda want to stay single for now" then " i mean its not a no and its not a yes its a i need time". I think that it is just what she said. but what do you think do you think is leaning towards a yes or a no or is it just what she said?

Well next saturday me the girl i like and 3 other people are going to the movies (2 guys 1 girl) and im planning on making a move while were there what kid of move should i make?

I know where to take her to go on a date but im not sure how to really ask her out and make it official. what should i say?

thanks for the feed back guys im going to continue to flirt and after i will ask her out how or what should i say?

Last night I was talking to a girl online from my school and I have feelings for her. Well anywaise it was late maybe 10:30 or 11:00 and she started to ask me odd questions. Her first question was do you like kara (there was a rumor going around about me liking her about 3 months ago). I said no because i dont and she said alright. Then she asks me another odd question. She asked me so...hows your love life going? I said not so good and then i asked her how hers was. She said it sucks. So then i said why do you ask and she said she was just board. Was she really just board?

guys like alot of things. *non-pissy girls *non-annoying girls most like virgins hair color dosent matter really *not hairy just basiclly shave your arms and legs and of course facial hair *not frizzy hair just make sure it looks good small cloths you know what i mean lol *not taller than him of course pretty a personality that matches theres but isnt better like not funnier if you have at least the ones with the stars your good

well you can just try to be yourself that might work if it dosent think of things to talk to her about. I know what you mean about being nervous on asking someone out but there is a really good thing about being a funny person (if you are like me.) Here is what you do if your to nervous to do in person or on the phone. Get her AIM screen name. Then start a conversation with her. Then just simply ask her out say o idk maybe will you go out w/ me lol. Then if she says no you can just say darn...u no i was just kidding right. Thats what i did but i didnt have to say the i was just kidding paart because she said yes...maybe you will get the same answer.

i said i dont know to her friend but then i said that last semester i liked her. And there is no possibility that her friend (emily) likes me because she has a bf and has been going out w/ him for over a year

Well i like this girl,marissa, and i have for a while now and last night one of her friends asked me "do you like marissa more than a friend?" Do you think that she asked her friend to ask me for her? Or was her friend just curious?

Well I think i got a BIG hint that she wants me to make a move. I asked marissa to go to the movies just me and her and she said "okie dokie" without hessetation and is going out to grab a bite with me after. So she is in Flordia for april vacation with her cousin and his friends and one of them is 15 shes 14. So the guy BEGGED her to go to the movies with him alone I no this because weve been texting ever since she left for vacation. she said "i dno" to him because she didnt want him to make a move on her she said and started to ask me what to do if he does. so i told her just to tell him to say that she was out of a bad relationship and wasent ready even when she is lol. so if she said i dno to him because she didnt want him to make a move on her but she said "okie dokie" to me does that mean that she wants me to make a move? I think so dont you?

Ok another post about marissa. the jist of the whole thing is i met her about 2 years ago and weve been good friends since. we go to movies in a group and the mall in a group im sure you get the idea. Well saturday she left for canada then went to flordia for vacation shes been using her grandmas cell phone. Since it's her grandmas she cant make calls her grandma only allows her to text message people so every day weve sent about 40 or so messages to each other. next week were going to see a horror movie in a group of people who will be making out through the whole movie, she always sit next to me at movies and I asked her if the following weekend she would like to go with me to another horror movie just me and her. She accepted then i asked her if she would like to walk somewhere after the movie because her mom dosent like her to go to the movies with just a guy. So i asked her to make sure it would be ok and she said that she just wouldnt tell her. were going at the night hopfully it will be cold so i can make the next move! I think that this is a big sign that she likes me. but what do you think am i right? any other ideas for me and her to go to just me and her?

Have him come over your house when your mom is home so she can know him and no that hes a good guy. if a guy has intrest in you he will act nice and helpful to your mom. so then your mom will like him then you tell her one night that your ready for dating even if shes not. just lay down the law to her. I dont have these problems because my parents could careless i started dating at a really young age i got my first girlfriend in 1st grade believe it or not.

My suggestion to you is not to just flat out ask her to dinner. Like you said you hardly know her so you should start off small see if she wants to go to the mall or the movies with you and a group of your and her friends. Then after that go to the mall or movies with her alone then you can get to the best point. If she is still with you not coming up with reasons why she cant go then she most likly has intrest with you. Then you can move to going to the movies with her then asking if she wants to go somewhere after wether it be dinner mall a walk. if you go out to dinner make sure that you pay you dont want to have her to pay even if she insists. try to go on a walk on a cold night bring your jacket like a light one and if she says shes cold (good sign) then you can eaither offer her your jacket, put your arm around her and hold her close and say better? or you could do both. Thats the situation i am in now and it is looking damn good! GOOD LUCK and dont chicken out!

With some people it is hard to tell and with some people you dont even want to bother asking them out unless your positive because that person might have a lot of the same friends as you and if she declines... well you get the picture but since i can trust marissa im willing to make the move

thank you all i like all of the idea but the first post it sounds like a good idea but i dont have the guts to do that. how should i offer her my arm? i like the if she says shes cold idea that cant go wrong because if she dosent want it we have a humorus and playful relation ship so i could just make it look like i was kidding around. any suggestions as to how i could get her to take a walk because both of us are to young to have a car of our own so we have rides back home should i just flat out ask her if she would like to take a walk?