my husband has brought me to another country, its been 6 years, recently we found out an opening with one of his/our relatives but he dint call on time and i got another job offer which i have agreed to. later his relative agrees to me to first see what the job is like and then agree on payment. i think he will offer better pay but i have agreed to the other job and havent started yet.
now i am blaming my husband for messing up things for me. if i take up the job i have agreed to, i might miss better pay, and if i refuse them and work for our relative i will look bad infront of the first offer that i have agreed to.
am i right for blaming him?