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summer_in_greece

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  1. Finding yourself means finding your purpose and meaning in life. My purpose in life is to serve the community by protecting it (through policing, and other indirect methods. Everyone's life as a purpose. Your duty is to find out what it is, and then live out that purpose the best you are able to.
  2. Maybe, but I would strongly recommend against getting drunk to meet someone. YOu will probably end up with some one who you will regret being with when you become sober. Remember the expression "beer goggles."
  3. It's important to remember that a lot of college students do what you do, and they don't have ADD. Many spend entire days doing nothing when they have work to do. Its call procastination, and most college students do it at some time. You are not alone.
  4. Isn't it illegal to touch someone's butt without thier consent????
  5. The best thing is to ignore him and forget about him. Don't let negative feelings for your brother hijack your mind. I am sure you have much better things to think about. Just avoid your brother as much as possible, and just try to forget about him. THink about the good times, and forget the bad times.
  6. Just ignore them. I have had that happen to me several times too. Just completely ignore the girls, and they should lose interest sooner or later. Maybe it will take a couple of weeks, but they are bright enough to see that a relationship with you isn't viable. So just ignore them and forget about the matter.
  7. Its sad that interracial dating has to be a "problem" which needs advise. Aren't we all the same?????
  8. I feel the same way a lot of the time. A lot of girls I know make me thier "pet." In university, I've had several professors and TA's who seemed to take an extraordinary interest in me. I don't know why. Some people say I can just charm girls too easily. Maybe same for you.
  9. I wish some girl would just come up and kiss me like that.
  10. This website makes me wonder how much depression is actually caused by mental illness, and how much is caused by bad circumstances. I know lots of people who are always depressed, but they are not crazy. They just have bad circumstances. Bad families, bad jobs (or no job), ect. Its a problem if people see depression as a mental problem rather than a social problem.
  11. In celebration of the life of Rosa Parks, I would like to leave a small tribute, and invite everyone who wants to do to do so: "Rosa Parks, Thank you for your courage, your wisdom, your determination. Thank you for making us free. Thank you for your life and passion. Thank you once again." I encourage everyone else also to express thier thoughts.
  12. A good way to help yourself may be to help others. Maybe you could join some sort of charity. Here are the benefits of such an approach: 1. YOu have something else to think about other than your problems. 2. You have something to look forward to other than mr. M. 3. You will make a lot of friends with your other charity workers. 4. You will be able to fulfill a passion in your life. 5. You will be able to help other people, and identify with them also. 6. Your life will be more meaningful. Maybe there is some homeless shelter, or Aids help center, or a place that helps animals. Try going to a community center and seeing where you can get involved. I am sure that there are a lot of people there who will make your life much happier.
  13. Hey, There is this girl I really like, but one thing I have noticed about her (and her sister) is that they are both very close to thier father, but seem to have no relationship with thier mother. Thier mother seems rather....um cruel and harsh, while their dad is very friendly. I was wondering if I do date her, what affect this might have on our relationship (if it gets there). If girls are closer to thier father, does it make a difference.....?
  14. There is lots of good advice on the internet on picking up girls, and it works. Lets listen to what heloladies has to say...
  15. There is a big difference between humans and flies, because humans can learn from thier previous experiences, and can learn from other people because only we possess a useable language. Thus, another guy can give me advise on picking up girls, things I would not know instinctively. And that advise should work!!!
  16. Here is a question for the girls: Say this guy who you have never seen before comes along and he really wants to kiss you. He is a decent guy, but you just met him. What could he say to you, or do for you, that would let you consent to him kissing you in the shortest time possible? Is there anything that would just move you to let him kiss you right away?
  17. What the heck is a metrosexual? And what does it have to do with zits?
  18. I WANT a clingy girlfriend.......
  19. I heard that girls are very romantic during that time, and that you are supposed to get closer to her, and that it is a good time to be intimate without it leading to anything else. Its a good time for cuddling and closeness.
  20. DOn't worry. I am sure there are a lot of young people in the situation you are in. When I got my license, my parents put massive restrictions on what I could do, even though I had been practicing for my license for over three years before I actually got it. Don't worry...there are lotz and lotz of cute girls on the bus. Lots of them...rather than getting upset, why don't you start planning how you can pick some of them of them up.......
  21. If you don't talk about sports, then what do you guys talk about?
  22. I often find a can't make guy friends either. I have no interest in sports as most guys do, so its hard to find something common to talk about.
  23. DN, I also hate shopping. I make a shopping list, pick up what I need, and get out of there. But if you love someone, and it is important to them, then I feel that it is showing that you care by doing the thing that they love doing, even if you don't like it. I mean, if I like watching planes. If I had a girlfriend, I would expect that she come with me to watch planes, even if she hates it. Its about showing love and respect. The same goes for shopping.
  24. OKay, yesterday I was talking to a guy, and he told me how important is is for his relationship with his wife that he go shopping with her. He said the many girls are upset that thier boyfriends / husbands won't go clothes shopping or shoe shopping with them. For many girls, shopping is thier favourite hobby, and many of them would like to bring thier boyfriend / husband along, but many of them don't want to go. So I have a question...for the girls...if you like shopping, how important is it for you that you bring your husband / boyfriend along? Could clothes shopping really be a romantic adventure?
  25. Anyway, back to topic: There are several things that the poster do to help attract girls: 1. Take dance lessons 2. Wear attractive clothes 3. Smile and make eye contact with girls 4. Practice public speaking so he is very confident with girls 5. EVERy where talk to girls.... Good luck!!!!!!
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