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  1. Thank you so much I’m going to go ahead and do it!
  2. I feel bad because what if I gave him a signal since we have hooked up in the past. My friends were outside when it happened but they only noticed when he went missing.
  3. This past weekend I was with all my friends we were all drinking having a good time. I got a little too drunk so I decided to go to sleep in my friends couch. The guy that I have a crush on was at the gathering. We both have messed around with each other a few times. I like him and he knows but I know he doesn’t like me back. Long story short I was laying on the couch and he comes and touches me I felt something but since I wasn’t fully there I didn’t do anything but just lay there still asleep. I woke up when I felt something hurt me and that was him inside me. I was just not strong enough to say anything or do anything so I just payed there. My friends came inside and told him what was he doing and he just got up and left. I’m so confused on why he would do that knowing I was intoxicated and asleep. How do y’all see it as? Maybe I think since we both have messed around it was okay for him to do it. My friends are so mad for the fact he did it knowing I wasn’t fully there so they want to cut off all ties with him.
  4. It’s been a hot minute since I been on here but I been really in my thoughts lately and I really don’t have anybody to talk to. Soo I been knowing this guy for about 3 years and all those years I been having a crush on him but never told him. I have a bestfriend and he is really close with her as well like brother and sister type of thing. I once did got sexually with him but it was just a one time thing. He always tried to touch me or grab me so I got the thought of him just wanting me to and I’m not like that. Yes I did it once but I wished I would take it back because I had just gotten out of a 7 year relationship and I was not in a good state of mind. Then this past week I saw him at my bestfriends house and he was talking to me saying why I always act weird around him and I told him because it seems like he just wants sex all the time and I want more than that. He told me that’s not all he wants. He was being sweet the whole day then we made out and he told me I don’t just do that with anybody and then he started texting me throughout the week but we was being really short with me. Then one day I told him hey I want to tell you something but don’t want it to be weird. So I told him I like him and he responded saying it was not weird and that’s it. Still was being short with me. Idk I’m confused like did I get the wrong signals? Then, I stopped texting him because he was being short with me. So then I texted him today because I’m like I don’t want to make it weird but he still short. He is a guy I will always be around since he is really close to my bestfriend. Idk I feel like I should of just kept it to myself. I feel dumb but at the same time weight off my shoulder.
  5. So, I hooked up with this guy two years ago and were just friends. It was just that one day and we constantly were texting each other and eventually I started to catch feelings. The only thing was that I didn’t know if he had feelings for me and I never wanted to ask him. We wouldn’t hang out only when he would come over at my bestfriends place and I will be there. I stopped texting him because I just didn’t want to catch more feelings and end up being hurt. When we see each other he always flirts with me and tries to be next to me but I try not to because I know I have feelings for him and I don’t think he wants the same. I feel like he only wants to hook up and that’s it. The weird thing is that when I told my bestfriend that I was going to go on a date he heard and he got jealous well I think because he told me if the guy was cuter then him, that why I’m I going for ? It confuses me!
  6. Sooo, long story short I was in a relationship for 7 years and he cheated on me multiple times. Now that I’m out of the relationship it’s been about two years already. I have some dating sites and there’s this guy that wants to meet me but I feel like he is way out my league. Everytime I try to meet someone new I find something so I won’t go. I know I have a low confidence and self esteem but I just can’t help it I been like that for years and it’s hard to come out of it. I have talked to my friends and they tell me I’m crazy that I’m pretty that I need to stop thinking so negatively about myself. When they give me a compliment I find a way to justify why I look the way I do. I was bullied since I was in middle school and it has caused so emotional damage to me. I feel like having low confidence has set me back but i really don’t know how to help myself. I get on moods were I just cry and cry but then get up and tell myself I will be okay even though I don’t feel that at that moment.
  7. Yes, exactly! I didn’t respond which I’m very happy about because I know I would of replied months ago. Everybody around me tells me don’t let him open that door anymore prove to him that your not second choice which I completely understand. Is that I just need to put my feelings to the side and just keep on moving forward even if it hurts.
  8. Hey guys🙂 So my ex boyfriend got a new Instagram and he send me a message saying “happy Fourth of July”. It’s been about 8 months that we haven’t talked what so ever. My old self would of replied in a heart beat. I feel like I have grown such as being able to maintain my feelings and just doing what’s best for me. I just can’t deny that my feelings for him haven’t changed at all and I know I’m dumb for that! It just sucks how my heart would want to reply but my mind said no it’s going to end well. I keep following my mind but it’s hurts. I don’t know how to explain it, after everything he has done to me how could I possible still have a happy reaction for seeing him on my messages.. maybe I’m just thinking to much into it.
  9. Short story short I was with my ex for 7 years and did everything I could to be with him ! I worked all the time he didn’t work and when he did he never helped me! He cheated on me and I forgave him and he did the same thing all over again! Then he ended having a kid already ! I tried for years to give him a kid but I couldn’t! I tried to talk to my family and friends and all I want is understanding because I’m hurt so bad! I haven’t talked to him in over 6 months! I started school in March and everything. It still I’m not fully satisfied with my feelings! I cry all the time !!! He got with a girl the doesn’t work has two other kids plus a new born with him! Where did I go wrong? I never treated him bad! Whenever he needed something I was there! Whenever he had warrants I payed for them so he can get his id so he can work! I got a car for him under my name! I got a apartment under my name and he brought someone else in there ! I didn’t haven’t the heart to take everything away from him so I just let him do what he got to do ! And now what I feel like lost !
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