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  1. Thank you for coming back to me, it helps to hear from people who have come out of the other side. I am trying to always remind myself that the relationship has come to an end, and even if there was a slight chance of getting back together down the line that it wouldnt be the same relationship, it came to an end for a reason. I have started looking a new properties now which I feel is the next step in things, and will help me be able to enforce NC properly once we have sorted out mortgage situation out. Its great that you are doing so much better than when you first posted and I am re
  2. Hi, Thank you for replying to me, Yeah I agree, she hasn't stopped loving me, she said the love has just changed from romantic to more of a friendship, Yeah hoping for that day when I start to feel better to come sooner rather than later!
  3. Hi, Thank you for replying to me. Yes I am finding it difficult to see purpose in what I am doing now & to take any pleasure or enjoyment in activities that used to make me happy. Agreed that the sooner the living situation is sorted the better, she is currently saying a friends house minding there dog whilst they are on holiday, (im at my mums) so I dont think the full impact of us breaking up and her being alone in our old home has hit her yet, I am guessing it kind of feels like a holiday for her being at her friends. When she does come back to living in our old home, she w
  4. Hi, thank you for replying. i would want nothing more than to get back together and work through our problems, but she has straight up said this isn't something she wants. She said she wants to experience what its like to be alone, to be independent, she mentioned about not ever having to ask permission to do anything (not that she had to anyway when she was with me). She isn't a talker, she is very good at keeping her emotions bottled up hence why I didn't see the breakup coming, so talking to her about her feelings is very difficult. I have encouraged her to speak to someone abou
  5. Thank you for replying, yes I agree thats the best way forward either way!
  6. My girlfriend of the last 6 years broke things off with me. She feels that we have grown apart over the last year or so (we have lived together for 2 years), the sex kind of stopped, 100% down to my sex drive even though i found her very attractive still. I don't think that there is any chance of saving the relationship she seems pretty sure and has said herself she is happy, although she still cares about me and really wants us to remain friends, although she kept saying that who knows that the future holds. She is also currently going through difficult times with herself, she said d
  7. Hi Trufo, i have been following this tread closely for the same reasons i imagine you scoured the internet and read everyone stories (helping me deal). My girlfriend of the last 6 years broke things off with me. She feels that we have grown apart over the last year or so (we have lived together for 2 years), the sex kind of stopped, 100% down to my sex drive even though i found her very attractive still. I don't think that there is any chance of saving the relationship she seems pretty sure and has said herself she is happy, although she still cares about me and really wants us to rem
  8. Thank you for taking the time to reply, she’s has held back on asking me to move out/leave so she doesn’t hurt me further. It’s just sickening to think about moving on/out and not being together anymore, suppose I am just finding it really hard to come to terms and deal with it
  9. I think it’s just coming to a realisation that it’s over, the time I have still been living here with her I suppose I have had hope of getting back together. Even though she has told me that it’s over and she is happy being single, It’s all very difficult to understand and deal with, she herself is in a bad mental state at the moment and has been for the past few years, I was very un-receptive when she would bring it up as I didn’t understand it fully. Part of me thinks one of the reasons she broke up is that she is depressed and lonely
  10. Thank you for your reply, it’s good to hear it’s nomal to have blips, it’s hard advise to swallow that moving out and having space will be the right thing to do but everyone is advising me the same thing so it must be worth listening to
  11. Hi guys, I posted here about 5 weeks back with all sorts of problems that my recent breakup has caused, specifically the physical problems of tightness in my chest, difficulty breathing and anxiety. It stopped me going outside, going to work bacislly functioning. Over the last few week with the help of some antidepressants advise from my mum and other things I seemed to almost go back to normal, I was able to return to work and go out with friends again. I even ran a Tough Mudder (a big love in my life doing physical challenges). But the last few days I seem to have reverted back to how
  12. Hi thank you for taking the time to reply, I have started thinking and looking at living arrangements, I think its the right thing to do. Again its reassuring to hear about people going though exactly the same, the one thing that has been getting me a lot is going out into public situations, Ie going for food etc I felt panicked and left. But my chest pains seemed to of died down which is good and I am taking steps, such as going for walks on my own, eating more etc. Thanks again
  13. Hi thank you for taking the time to reply, Again its reassuring to hear that I am doing the right things, thank you for the advise and kind words.
  14. We started to talk about living arrangements, as we would need to either sell where we live or buy each other out type thing. When my panic attacks happened we stopped talking about it until I got myself a bit better, I didn't want to add anymore stress on
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