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  1. I'm going to hold my hands up and admit that I'm an idiotic hopeless romantic. In the last two years I've broken my own heart 4 times. My relationship history is confusing, but it all started with the break up of my first serious loving relationship. Followed by involving myself with unavailable men and then being the unavailable woman to an incredible man. I feel that in all of these instances I've broken my own heart by not giving myself time to recover and be on my own to grow stronger. After my most recent breakup of an 'almost relationship' a week ago, I find myself thinki
  2. Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post. Part of me agrees with you, I want to take control of the situation because the anxiety of waiting for a message that may never come is hurting me. What's making me not message him first is the fact I also don't want further engagement with him because it hurts. I know where he stands and there's nothing more that needs to be said. I think I asked for that space of a few days so he'd realise he's making a mistake..sad I know, but I didn't know what else to do. So his lack of messaging me is all the closure I need I think. I don't want to have
  3. Thank you so much for this response. This is what I needed to hear, 100%
  4. Long story short I've been dating a guy in work for three months now. We both have strong feelings for each other but he said last week that he is too afraid of a relationship and getting hurt that he can't give me the committment I want (he told me these worries at the start) He is very conflicted over this as he wishes he wasn't afraid. We cried together for hours when having this whole conversation about committment. Another thing to note is that during the whole conversation we both said we still care for one another and things weren't left bitter or awkward between us. After the c
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