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  1. Thanks for the replies guys...even though most of you were extremely rude ... but to each his own. One thing which did help me is that I understand I was being unreasonable and I won’t be mentioning this feeling of mine to my fiancé. FYI- 1) it’s his brother’s baby...yes it was all well and cute that he was playing with a baby but what annoyed me was that the baby’s parents were sleeping in their own room whilst the rest of the family was handling the baby at 2am. This happens everyday. The baby is sweet even I care for him but his parents really should be looking after him not the rest of the household. 2) Fiancé’s Mom doesn’t want him to move out. She doesn’t really like me because her son has decided to move out after marriage so she thinks I’m taking her son away from her. The other day he told me that she was saying to him ‘will you be able to live without your nephew? It’s gonna be hard!’ I don’t know how my fiancé felt after hearing that but I see that as emotional blackmail. 3) yes we have a time difference and I DO NOT tell him to stay up for me ... and we do not have phone sex every night and when we do he initiates it... don’t know why some people are jumping to conclusions that I make him stay up till 2am for phone sex.
  2. Just really need to vent out somewhere... so earlier on tonight me and my fiancé (who lives in another city so it’s a long distance relationship ) were talking on the phone and the convo gradually got sexual - we normally make do with phone sex since we can’t meet that often - so I said to him give me 5 mins I just need to go to the loo. I visited the loo and rang him back within 5 minutes but he didn’t answer... I then waited around 15 minutes after which he messaged me saying ‘coming in 5 mins’ ... another 10 mins passed and he finally rang me. I asked what took him so long and he told me that his baby nephew (5 month old) was still awake (at 2am) and was playing in the room next door with my fiancé’s sister so he went to say hi to the baby and ended up playing with him. And on top of that whilst my fiancé was on the phone telling me all this, his mom came in the room with the baby to say bye as she was taking the baby to put him to sleep. My fiancé sounded really tired by then so I said to him don’t worry go to sleep we’ll do it another time and he said ‘awww sorry we couldn’t do our phone sex thing tonight.’ I said it’s ok don’t worry I know you’re really sleepy ... we said goodnight and he went to sleep. Now I’m wide awake sitting here feeling so pissed off and I don’t even know if it’s normal for me to feel this way? I know my fiancé loves me and I know he really enjoys sex with me in real and over the phone but his attachment to his family is really annoying. Would you guys be pissed off at something like this? FYI- he lives in the house with both his parents, sister, brother and his brother’s wife and of course their baby... yes he is Indian that’s why it’s a joint family and he hasn’t moved out yet...he will move out after we get married.
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