Just really need to vent out somewhere... so earlier on tonight me and my fiancé (who lives in another city so it’s a long distance relationship ) were talking on the phone and the convo gradually got sexual - we normally make do with phone sex since we can’t meet that often - so I said to him give me 5 mins I just need to go to the loo. I visited the loo and rang him back within 5 minutes but he didn’t answer... I then waited around 15 minutes after which he messaged me saying ‘coming in 5 mins’ ... another 10 mins passed and he finally rang me. I asked what took him so long and he told me that his baby nephew (5 month old) was still awake (at 2am) and was playing in the room next door with my fiancé’s sister so he went to say hi to the baby and ended up playing with him. And on top of that whilst my fiancé was on the phone telling me all this, his mom came in the room with the baby to say bye as she was taking the baby to put him to sleep. My fiancé sounded really tired by then so I said to him don’t worry go to sleep we’ll do it another time and he said ‘awww sorry we couldn’t do our phone sex thing tonight.’ I said it’s ok don’t worry I know you’re really sleepy ... we said goodnight and he went to sleep. Now I’m wide awake sitting here feeling so pissed off and I don’t even know if it’s normal for me to feel this way? I know my fiancé loves me and I know he really enjoys sex with me in real and over the phone but his attachment to his family is really annoying. Would you guys be pissed off at something like this?
FYI- he lives in the house with both his parents, sister, brother and his brother’s wife and of course their baby... yes he is Indian that’s why it’s a joint family and he hasn’t moved out yet...he will move out after we get married.