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  1. The reason I found it as an attractive is because she told me I was being inappropriate and that I was cruising, which is not accurate. Also, people in relationships break up and date other people all the time, so the idea that it’s so inappropriate to look at a guy who may be in a relationship is confusing to me. But I understand where everyone is coming from and I appreciate the honesty.
  2. So I’m sitting at my desk minding my own business and I look up to catch him staring at me as he walks by... but he’s just trying to figure out why I’m staring? Doesn’t make sense. Thank being said I’ll just get it out of my mind going forward- that seems to be the general consensus
  3. I came here for advice, not to be attacked by you. I continue to start at him because he continues to stare at me! Or did you miss that part when you were forming your own interpretation of our interaction?
  4. Thanks for your response. Yeah, I’m gonna leave it alone. Probably won’t chit chat with him since I like him too much and it won’t help my situation hahah. Plus, if he has a gf I’d hate to make a fool of myself
  5. First off, I’m not cruising. Cruising means looking for sex in public places and that absolutely NOT what I’m doing. I did say that I leave him along if he stops looking. So it’s never like he’s minding his business and I’m staring from across the room. Not sure why you think it’s inappropriate either.
  6. I’m a 30 year old gay guy and there’s a guy at my workplace who I find very attractive. He’s honestly just the cutest. Let’s call him Mike. Mike just joined our department and is about 20, so he’s pretty young. I haven’t had a chance to talk to him, since we don’t work on the same team. I’m a very visual guy so I tend to look at things I like lol. I see Mike around the office a lot and I make eye contact with him and he looks back. There are times where we’re holding eye contact for 2-3 seconds at a time, and other times I see him and he’s consciously avoiding eye contact with me. When this happens I leave him alone and avoid eye contact as well. Then I’d be passing him again but ignoring him and I’ll look up to see him looking into my eyes again. I heard he has a gf so I don’t wanna cross a line. But I do see I’m holding his gaze with me whenever we’re close to each other. It honestly gives me butterflies and makes my heart race. I don’t stare at him all the time btw— I’m not creepy. But does he like me or should I just leave it alone?
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