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  1. I completely agree with this. OP, I would have him delete those photos as well and not participate in this. If it happens again, I’d walk away. Otherwise he will think he can get away with this behavior going forward. My ex’s friends used to send him nudes of random women as well, but he never saved them and they would just be in the group chats. My concern is that they were saved to his album. Why? The only app I know that automatically downloads pics to your phone is WhatsApp. You say he has not done this in 10 months, and yes, he was transparent with you. So was my ex about
  2. This is a bit of a late reply, but I came across your thread and your BF sounds very much like my ex, down to the best friend. My ex also had a best friend like Tom. Perpetually single and chasing women, going to nightclubs with my ex, would even flirt with me in front of my ex. All through this, my ex let it happen because he was in awe of his friend and did anything he wanted. Turns out the problem was my ex, not his friend. He also turned out to be a snake, manipulating and gaslighting me and believing he was doing nothing wrong by flirting with other women, going out to clubs wit
  3. Good morning! Longtime lurker but my first time posting here. Have any of you ever dealt with a mistrustful or insecure/paranoid SO? What did you do? My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and were friends for a couple months before that. I knew from the start that he had a rough, abusive childhood and his last girlfriend cheated, and he admitted that he had trust issues. I didn’t know how bad those issues were until a few months after we moved in together (his lease had just ended so we just quarantined together). He frequently sees “red flags” and jumps into accus
  4. Good morning all, Have any of you dealt with an insecure or generally mistrustful SO? BF and I have been together 8 months and a couple things have happened that he says made him mistrust me. He had an abusive and rough childhood and his last girlfriend cheated, so he’s admitted he has trouble trusting people. I understand as I have my own insecurities, but am actively working through them. - While looking up something on my phone last month, he somehow pulled up a POF deletion site and thought I was still using dating apps. I deleted all my dating apps when we became boyfriend
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