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  1. She asked me first and I was honest because I feel like anyone thats getting involved with you should know your history before they decide.
  2. It was more of us just starting out with no secrets and being honest about our pasts. It was never about keeping score.
  3. So I started dating my girlfriend a couple months ago and everything was great up until recently. Before we started dating we had a conversation about how many people we had each slept with. I was completely honest, and I assumed that she was too. However, the day after I returned to school from winter break (we go to different colleges about 2 hours away) she gets drunk and tells me that she didn't tell me everyone. She said that she had slept with one of her current guy friends a couple weeks before we started dating. This really pissed me off because not only did she wait until I was g
  4. Nope, she follows me on some platforms but I have removed her, havent spoken to her since september, we were texting each other and she stopped replying so I didn't chase. It was really weird to be honest, one second we were in a normal conversation and then months go by without saying anything to each other.
  5. So my ex and I broke up over a year ago, and it took a while but I started feeling better, but then she came back around and we started hanging out again and pretty soon we were practically dating again. Once the semester started she ghosted me and started dating another guy who I was told ended up cheating on her although I don't know that for sure. might sound bad to say and it might make me a bad person but it kind of felt good to know she got burnt after hurting me like that. I cant seem to stop thinking about her though, even though I dont want to. I also know full well that it wo
  6. If you were looking at me from the outside, you'd probably think that I was happy. I'm 19, I go to college, am joining a fraternity, and I have some close friends back home. However, I feel like no matter what I do, I can't form new meaningful relationships. I have been feeling kind of depressed since my ex girlfriend broke up with me close to a year ago, and I'm starting to feel as though I'm never going to meet someone who will want to be with me ever again. I struggle with confidence as I have never felt that I was good enough, and I have always subconsciously sought after approval fr
  7. I was in this situation with my ex girlfriend, she used to do all of these things that you're saying in this post. Chatting with other guys while not letting you talk to other girls, acting cold to you at parties etc. Best advice I can give you is to stick with NC. I did it for 5 months before she came back around. Take this time to build yourself up and become a new person. If she comes back around then you can make a decision, but there is no guarantee of that happening unfortunately. It does get better, the days become quicker and the pain will subside, but only if you do the work.
  8. My ex. girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago, and we didn't talk for roughly 4 months. Then, after the semester ended, she texted me and asked me to talk, I was very hesitant, but I agreed. We started to hang out more often, and eventually it was like we were dating again. We spent our entire summer together and had a great summer. She left to go back to school about 2 weeks ago, and before she left she had hinted that she wanted to get back together. I said that I didn't think it was a good idea because long distance already failed us once, but we agreed that we wanted to keep talking
  9. This post might be long, if you read the whole thing then I thank you, but I just want to get this out of my head. My girlfriend of two years broke up with me back in early December. We are both in our first year of college and we are only 25 minutes apart, so we still got to see each other frequently. She was my first girlfriend and I thought that I was going to marry her, we would talk about moving in together and getting married and having kids. It seemed like everything was going great until the end of November, she just started acting cold towards me like she didn't want to talk. I c
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