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Alina chavez

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  1. Apparently she finally gave us a definite answer that she is not pregnant... it was a relief but at the same time we both made damage that is hard to repair. I have such a hard time trusting him and I’m scared to let go because aside from this I enjoy being with him and I can’t see myself without him but he insists I’m controlling by not being ok with him going out without me, if he has a day off I do call him a lot and if he misses my calls I freak out witch he later gives me a reasonable excuse but deep down I don’t believe it. If I move on what are the chances that someone new in my life won’t cheat? Loyalty is rare these days
  2. We just went through a traumatic event. Long story short, we both cheated oneachother. Somehow we are still together, I want to be with him and so does he with me. We have 3 kids and we are struggling with trust. He told me today two of his guys want to get together at a local bar, he wants me to drop him off and pick him up so I can see where he will be. Should I be ok with him going out like this when in the past he wouldn’t even do things like these with his friends?
  3. My husband and I have been married for 12 years: we have 3 kids. He cheated at the beginning of the relationship but I forgave him. Now two years ago he left to a job for a couple months, I began to have fun and ended being unfaithful to him... he left again... he cheated. There’s a possibility this girl is pregnant, but at this point in our lives I feel like i don’t want to lose him. I made a mistake and thought maybe this is what I deserve for doing what I did... I changed so much and I don’t want to be unfaithful again. but it’s hard for me to see myself dealing with the fact he will have a child with another girl. I don’t know if to stay with him if she is pregnant because I feel I won’t be able to support him or be here for him as he deals with her pregnancy and being there when the baby is born or simply her keep calling him... I love him, but I’m not strong enough. He says he doesn’t want me to leave him, and that he would keep trying with our marriage... but I don’t want to waste his time. Has anyone dealt with their partner having a child out of an affair? Would u stay or walk away?
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