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  1. evidica
    for the record, it's former marine, not ex-marine. Once a marine, always a marine, semper fidelis.
  2. evidica
    Stop watching porn and masturbating. Also, try to develop a more open relationship sexually with her. If you do that you will not be as tense. If you are tense it may prevent you from being able to have an erection. I had the same issue, for awhile I had to drink some whiskey to relax me. Dont drink too much alcohol if you do though, otherwise you just make it worse.
  3. evidica
    I told her I was slightly concerned, but she reassured me that it was just to hang with her girlfriends. I am not controlling and dont ever plan to be. I post on this site just to get ideas on what is going on so I dont blow up and mess up this relationship. I love her to death and I just want everything to be perfect, that is why I post. Thanks for the comments, I really dont think about it much when she goes out and I think it is more that I wish I were there with her dancing than me worrying about her dancing with other guys. Anyhow, thanks all.
  4. evidica
    My girlfriend has been wanting to go to clubs with her college pals and only has gone a couple time. Should I be worried about her going? I am 99% sure she wont drink, as she doesnt drink unless she is with me, but I am concerned about why she would want to go to a club and have dry sex with random guys. Can any girl elaborate on this for me? I am not concerned about losing her, I am just conservitive and I dont see why she would want to do that instead of just hang out with friends.
  5. evidica
    she didnt have to live in the dorm, it was her choice. Matter of fact, she asked me what to do, if she should live with me or live in a dorm, before she decided to live in a dorm. I told her that logically, living in the dorm is smarter, I take that back now.
  6. evidica
    I will do my best that is for sure. I dont wanna lose her because I am being selfish. I just love her so much, it was great having her with me every day. It is very hard to revert back to not seeing her every day or talking to her every morning, afternoon and night. I guess I just have to break the habit for now and wait for her first year to be up becuase she said she wants to move back in when she can get out of her dorm. On that note, kinda off topic, when you enter a dorm for college, do you have to maintain residence there the entire year, or can you leave at semester?
  7. evidica
    I am the lucky one in this scenario in that my girlfriends college is only 20 mintues from work and home. When she graduated high school, she "moved in with me". What I mean by the quotes is that she was staying the night every night, but hadnt really moved all of her stuff in, but she was basically living with me. So anyhow, I loved it, I would come home from work and she was there and I would go to sleep with her and wake up to her. It was great. Last week though, she moved in to her dorm and wanted to stay there all last week becuase she had practice every morning at 6:30. I wasnt at all upset or disappointed by this decision, it made sense. I had to go out of town Friday night and returned Saturday evening in hopes to hang with here. They had been doing all kinds of activites for Orientation during the day and she didnt want to leave and hang with me becuase she felt bad leaving since it was the first time that everyone in her dorm was actually there. So I dealt with it and she ended up coming over yesterday to hang with me but had to leave for more Orientation stuff. What I am getting at here is does anyone know how long she is going to want to be at her dorm versus coming over to my apartment at any opportunity? My father suggested that I just not bother her by calling her and finding out what she is doing and wants to do and just let her call me. He said that if I do that she will eventually start to realize that I am not calling like I normally do and in turn start hanging out with me when she can. The only thing I am worried about by doing that is that she may think something is wrong, like that I am seeing someone else or that I dont want to talk to her. I dont want to put her through that, so what do I do?
  8. evidica
    What seems to have happened here is that she put herself out there and you declined. Women are extremely sesitive to this, especially if they like you a lot. Body language is generally not a good answer either, same with "No". As with all women, if they want something more than friends, its generally now or never. So you cant plan on flirting again like old time for a long while. This is because, she was flirting becuase she liked you and wanted to be boyfriend and girlfriend, whereas you were flirting for attention and an ego boost.
  9. evidica
    Well I spoke with her about it. Turns out, after I phsyco analyzed her, she needs it for confidence. I knew when we started dating over three years ago she had a confidence problem. She showed me all of her chat logs from the past three months when she started talking to a penpal. Any time in any conversation he compliments her or hits on her/flirts, she reminds him how much she loves me. Now that she knows that it has been concerning me she has a different attitude towards attention. When a few guys were looking at her at the mall today, she just laughed and kept walking with me. She is just ignoring all attention that could be constrewed as being responsive to a flirt. So I think we are in good shape. It runs in my blood to overreact to situations according to my dad also.
  10. evidica
    That post was over a year ago. Thanks all, I will talk to her about it tonight. I think she is just going to have to be a * * * * *, otherwise its going to be an ongoing process.
  11. evidica
    I have been with my girlfriend for now over three years. We have talked about marriage a lot but I have yet to follow through because she told me she wanted to wait until after her first semester in college. We absolutely love each other, but this morning we were tlaking and she said that she likes attention from other boys and wants to get over it. She said she doesnt want to just blow them off when they give it to her becuase she doesnt want to be a b!tch . Does anyone have any ideas on how she can shut them down without being a "B!tch"? My other question is, should I be worried?
  12. evidica
    its happened to me before, its just a precursor to her period. Dont worry you prolly didnt hurt her, you just have a little blood coming out its not that bad.
  13. evidica
    well, one thing i can tell ya not to do is let your teeth touch anywhere, at least in the beginning, that will scare the dude. Also stay away from the very tip top where the urethra ends. It can get agitated after a bit. Most guys have a "g-spot" on the underside like an inch below the head. You will know when you find it. If ya can deepthroat, that feels good for him, just dont gag yourself into puking, that will end it all. THats all my input for now
  14. evidica
    I LOVE going down on my g/f. Its always better too if its right after a shower and its trimmed, cuz i hate choking on hair.
  15. evidica
    when my g/f asked me if we wanted to I kept asking her if she was ready. I kinda drilled her about it to make sure there was no doubt in here at all.
  16. evidica
    Talk to him, ask him if he thinks he is to stop watching it and see if he has an urge too. Thats and addiction if he has urges to watch it. Now their is a difference between having a sexual urge and a porn urge, dont get those confused. The best time to determine if its an addiction is if he masturbates to it to see if he still wants to watch it afterwards.
  17. evidica
    well.... first thing hes prolly hitting your cervix. TELL him dont ask, to not go in so far. When my g/f and i started having sex she would hold her hands down to stop me from going in too far. I got used to how far to go after awhile. Now the bleading. I know the shot is supposed to keep periods from occurring but i am sure its possible this could malfunction. I dont know if hes pushing hard enough to cause bleeding either, never heard of that happenig before.
  18. evidica
    also man, if shes been stressed out she may miss it. my girl went 2 months without one because of stress
  19. evidica
    ending a four year relationship will not be easy. If you have lasted four months already, good job! It will take some time, but yes those are general normal symptoms. Dont worry about it, your almost there.
  20. evidica
    dont worry about dating his brother either, my g/fs dad dated his wifes sister before they got married.
  21. evidica
    ^ that and: if shes lies all the time and you cannot trust this "friend" how can a good friendship be established?
  22. evidica
    well, if you check up on him, you will have two outcomes. 1. he will be cheating and you will end the relationship. 2. hes not cheating, but finds out you dont trust him, may end the relationship. So either way, its likely it will end the relationship. IF you do honestly think he is cheating, you need to make him WANT you. Make him sit at work thinking about how happy he will be the moment he sees you. By keeping him interested in you, he wont want to stray.
  23. evidica
    Addiction is something that takes a lot to remove from ones self. You will get a lot of different perspectives on this, but here is mine. My father was an alcoholic, he struggled with programs as well. He finally was persuaded to go to church. It took him two years, but eventually he stopped drinking. Now, your sir left because he was tired of you talking about it? WTF!? No offense but he needs to grow up. On the other hand, sometimes people feel like they have an uncontrollable addiction and by brining it up you are ointing out their flaws andnobody wants to hear about their flaws. Your best bet is to just tell him if he comes back you wont bring up the subject for awhile. Then after a month or two start talking of ways you can solve the problem. Maybe he has a fetish that they perform at these shows that he is too embarrassed to tell you about. You just need to get him to open up.
  24. evidica
    tall chicks are most def attractive, but then again i am also 6'3"
  25. evidica
    first thing make sure he understands you needed someone to talk to and that was the only person you could go to. If he gets mad because you needed to talk to someone than I really dont think you should be with someone that is that insecure.
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