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Thanks for your comments they are much appreciated. You are very wise people and like you said he could be a total jerk from what i know of him he isnt but like i said i dont know him well enough. Anyways thank you

hey thanx for the comments! actually i kind of suspect that what you are saying is right, of course it is. i actually regret putting the words 'love' in the post cos when i look back i sound incredibly stupid and sad. Of course im not in love with this guy, in fact i just think hes extremely cute, so cute that its blocking my judgement. I mean, i dont know him personally so i dont love him cos like i always say to my friends is 'i wont go out with someone unless i know them first cos how the hell will i know if i love them'. So i am really confused? Yeah i am bi, he is the only guy i think about but like you say that doesnt mean i love him. In fact i think hes more of an obsession in the sense that ill probably go off him in a few years lol. Do you think i should tell him that i think he is cute if he approaches me as i think he knows anyways and then see what happens from there, whether ill get a black eye or not lol? Steve

Thats the problem i dont even know if he is straight, or whatever because he is quiet, but hes amazing and i need to tell him i care but without freaking him out.

How do i tell a guy who i think is straight that im in love with him? Im bi, and i think about him all the time, hes so cute and adorable and i want to tell him how i feel but: 1. I dont really know him enough to approach him, even a 'hello' would be classed as suspicious. 2. Hes twice my size build wise 3. I dont want him to hate me if he doesnt feel the same. 4. I dont want to put him in a difficult position. any ideas?

all i can say is get aguitar and get into songwriting, poems are better with a melody, in fact im writing a song at the moment about a teenager who is going to commit suicide and the song is basically is suicide note to his mom but im having trouble with lyrics as ive never ever thought about suicide, i think it would be best to talk to someone who has been through it. Stevie Mac

yeah you too!!!! I wrote Brighter Tomorrow about 2 years ago lol What you think of this chrous for an old song...i was thinking of beefing it up a bit!! 'Maniac' Cos shes a maniac Ive tried to tell her she wont listen A maniac She does things for no reason Cos shes got something wrong Shes got something wrong with her mind... aww the memories

LOL same happening to me... there is this guy who i see a few times at work (he workes at a different building than me) but everytime i do i lose it. He gets the same train home as me and i totally give him eye contact but not too obvious and it has an effect. I sat near him once and he totally knew, kept looking at me to see if i was looking at him like normal yet when he came down to my section (his job means he has to do drop stuff off etc) i totally blanked him cos i know if i even speak ill stutter and itll become obvious. its so stupid. He hangs around with women and guys and i dont know if he is bi or what, also hes twice my size and i bet you hed kick my arse if he knew. I dont know how to tell him without freaking him out or coming out in general...

Ive known im bi for a long long time. Its simply put this way. Ive always been shy of girls but then one day i was watching a tv show (i was 13) and some guy came on the tv. I swear to god i froze and just found i was totally attracted to him. Ive tried to fight it but it wont go away so i have to live with it and accept it. Thing is though, it wasnt your typical muscular person. He was chubby, hairy and the total opposite of the stereotypes. A bit like James Gandolfini really... I love being bi but i dont think i can tell people yet...

hey whats up this is soo weird but its true. I feel exactly the same way. Im 17 definitely bisexual simply because i just know. The thing is im still havent told anyone yet. My closest male friends say 'im gay' simply because i wont chat to women and i havent had a girlfriend. Im shy to both sexes really but thats beside the point. Im still 'in the closet' as it were and my biggest fear is coming out as bi. I dont know what the reaction would be though. One of my best friends is bi curious but she is a woman, society says its different for her. No one cared and she had the attitude of f**k them all anyways but i cant tell anyone. To many people i know are homophobic. i know if i tell them they will probably take the piss (one keeps saying i like it up the bum hole which 1. i havent ever done and never will 2. he admitted he liked giving his gf anal, id dont get him) but i dont care if they disown me. The problem is my family as i come from a big family. My mother is a bit homophobic as well so that doesnt help. GAY BEARS RULE!!!!! Steven

hey im a songwriter too...WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! a song i wrote last year...one of my first Brighter Tomorrow when the world aint on your side dont run away and hide, youve got to look out for yourself when your life goes crashing down dont try to drink you know youll drown, dont you give up the fight cos its not right when tomorrow is a new day gotta stay up, gotta stay high cos the suns still in the sky dont ever give up, dont let yourself down cos soon your world will turn itself around will turn itself around.... whenever your feeling blue remember these things are said to try you, you can make it if you take it a day by day cos theres always another way gotta stay up, gotta stay high cos the suns still in the sky dont ever give up, dont let yourself down cos soon your world will turn itself around gotta stay up, gotta stay high cos the suns still in the sky dont ever give up, dont let yourself down cos soon your world will turn itself around turn itself around... LOL one of my first song i ever wrote and one of the first in the bin!!!!

to stargazer25 I know exactly what you mean about 'straight men acting gay'. Many men think that girls should only have girl friends and the like and the fact you have a male friend is putting his manliness to threat. Even though your friend is gay he is paranoid that he is only acting. I think he needs reassurance that you love him and he is the only one. The thing is im bi, i have a female friend who is bi, but her boyfriend kicks off when i flirt with her. Its totally innocent like 'its so hot in her, i think i may need to lose some layers' on a packed train at rush hour etc. Its all just a bit of fun really for us too but he doesnt see it that way.

I know how you feel... the problem with me is i put up a wall to stop everyone. Because, im bi its even harder i go all weird when strangers talk to me even if i dont fancy them...its weird