polodall

I agree....its very important to have trust in a realtionship. Eventhough everyone worries about what their gf/bf is up to, u can still have enough trust to atleast trust them and just maybe not other ppl. if u guys have been together for 3 years then there must be some trust in the relationship, and if u have trust in the relationship then u should be able to stick it out and make sure that breaking up is really what u want to do. and if she has problems with ppl not trusting her and she has still stayed with u for 3 years, she's gotta really care about u, and that takes a lot, trust me i know!! So id say really give it some thought before u make any drastic decisions.

Hey thanks guys....i really hope ur advice helps...i feel i need all that i can get...lol

I just met one of the best friends I could ever could have asked for. Lets start with a little history. I started working at the YMCA in October 2005. This guy Eric was one of the guys that showed me how everything worked. We started talking and found we have a lot in common. Everyone at work constantly made comments about how close we became so fast. We had always just ignored them because we really didnt care what they thought about us. As we started to hang out more he met a lot of my friends and i met a lot of his friends. After a while my best girlfriends started asking me if we were ever going to go out. Now i dont care what other people think, but when my best friends start saying stuff like that i pay attention. I already knew that i loved him atleast as friends, but i wasnt sure about the whole dating thing. I talked to him about it and it seemed he felt how i did!?! So what was i to do? Since then we have been hanging out as if none of this has happened. With one exception. I would always help him with stuff at work or take care of something that he needed and for almost a month now, whenever i do anything nice for him he sort of "jokingly" say will you marry me. Now i know he doesnt mean it but it just seemed to start getting a little strange how often he says it. I thimk i really needed to write this and if anyone has any ideas as to what it means or has any advice, it would be greatly appreciated!! love always polodall

well, u cant just make ur feelings go away. since u know what u want, just sit down and talk to him. u need to let him know ur delema. when these feelings start arising in me i just let the guy go, but then it usually happeneds way before a year. just look deep inside, what ur gut says is always the right answer. and just do what u feel is right.

meeting people online isnt always the best way. i do know people who just mess around on the internet. but a lot of them out there are actually real. it is most likely that she is lieing about herself. people feel more comfortable not talking to people in person because they can be who ever they want to be online. i would say either confront her or just forget about her. move on to someone else. but in the end its ur decision.

hey, if u like this girl, and u arnt to afraid, go up and talk to her. if shes a nice girl she wont mind u talking to her. just dont wait for other people to do work u should do urself. honestly, u kinda sound like u r in middle school still. dont be afraid, u can even ask her to grab a cup of coffee or if u want to do work together one night. just talk to her and get to know her. Girls hate it when you send other people to "ask them out". its so...jr high! its really annoying too. so if you want this girl just go 4 it and dont punk out. if she doesnt like you like that then you can always just be friends and hang...oh and dont scare her off either... just be cool and calm... act confident but not overconfident. good luck!

honestly, if u love something let it go. if it comes back its yours. but if it doesnt, it wasn't meant to be. i am really sorry to say thats how this guy works, but some guys are just difficult. maybe he's just afraid of loving you then leaving you, or maybe he honestly just wants a butt buddy and doesnt want to take you seriously. if you just wanna be his sex toy then have fun, but if thats not what your looking for then drop him. a guy who doesnt respect you enough to say no doesnt love you( obviously) so dont waste your time.

now dont get me wrong. i love to go out and have fun on dates and stuff, but i feel it has all been ruined for me. I know im only 17 and in high school, but i feel i meet the only guy i am ever going to love. he swears that he "doesn't like me", yet he cared when he found out when i was interested in another guy and he goes places when he knows i am going to be there. it is just really starting to piss me off. i dont know what to do about it. if anyone has any advice, please let me know..... :scramble:

poetry is what u make of it. i love to read poetry and i think the stuff u wrote is really beautiful. but im not a real critic. just write what u feel and that is poetry.