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  1. noooo total opposite people my last thread is lonngggg gone ahah, hes a new guy and new people I don't associate with anyone from my last posts!
  2. My boyfriend has a best friend who is a girl, and before they were friends they had a thing for 2 months. they are really close and it really worries me. they both go to the same school and im at a different school an hour and a half away. so I only get to see him on weekends when we both come home. hes super close with her, and one time sent me a selfie with her head leaning on his shoulder/neck, and has now posted a video on social media of them sitting on a bed together alone. it really makes me upset and I don't know if its just me worrying unnecessarily or if I have a right to be mad about it. I hate stressing and he already told me a story about her ex not wanting them to hangout alone together and how my boyfriend was upset with the fact her then boyfriend didn't like that. so I feel like I have no say in this. my boyfriend obviously really likes me and wants me only but they had a thing before and theyre both drunk at a party and I've never met her. so who knows what would happen. should I be worried? and if I have to talk to him about this how do I say it without sounding crazy or too controlling. thank you
  3. Hello, so I really like this one guy I have a big crush on him, we are friends in a 5 person friend group. hes so funny and cute and I just really like him. However, im pretty sure he doesn't like me back.. and another guy in our friend group likes me a lot, we will name him Tom. Tom treats me soooooo good, hes so so sweet and just an amazing guy, but I don't like him like that.. I've told him and he is okay with us being friends and he still treats me the same. and the guy I like we will name him Sam, doesn't give me any attention like tom does. tom is constantly asking to hangout and he surpises me with food and calls me beautiful and all this amazing stuff. I just wish Sam would treat me the way Tom does because I like sam not tom. sorry this may be confusing but I don't know what to do. I feel so upset that sam doesn't like me because of how much I like him, and I just compare him to tom because I want sam to treat me the way tom does.
  4. I see she has a TON of trust issues or just issues with herself that have nothing to do with you that she needs to work on. you said you see red flags and know not to run away cuz thats not how long relationships work, but that is soooo wrong. you need to see these warning signs and do something about it, or else your whole relationship will stay the same. you do not need to give your logins to your SO and neither does she thats just one sign that this relationship is not good. I say break up with her, find a girl who trusts you and is loyal and doesn't freak out on you all the time. you'll be much happier, I've been in a really long relationship and there was none of that going on.
  5. hey quick back story. we've been dating for 5 years now we are now 19 years old. as you can tell we've been together all of high school and all of my teen years basically. I love him hes my best friend I couldn't imagine life without him he treats me SOOO good so good and he loves me with all of his heart, but idk if im fully there anymore.. like of course I still love him I think I always will love him but im not sure if I love him relationship wise anymore. Im in college and I live by my college so idont see him often only on weekends and every time I see him I just wanna be left alone or id rather go see my friends, I dread the weekends (I also love school..shocker I know) during the week he tells me how much he misses me and everything and I just don't ever miss him anymore.. I don't know what to do and sorry TMI but I also haven't really been wanting to do anything sexual with him I dread that too, idk why its not him hes perfect and sexy and I love his body but its just I don't know im not feeling it. And if I have to break up with him I can't I just can't do it hes my bestfriend I love him I can't not be with him, it would absolutely break his heart, I don't want to hurt him I love him too much to hurt him so im so stuck in my situation :( and there also some guys at school that I think I like and want to talk to and stuff but I can't because of my bf its just a messed up situation and im a horrible person :( idk what to do
  6. Thank you for your advice, it was really helpful. Don't worry I will definitely not be getting pregnant anytime soon, in September I was just having major baby fever for some reason lol. im thinking I may have outgrown him your right. I think Im going to just talk to him and tell him how I really feel. I start college in January and Im really excited and really want to focus on it as much as possible because after im done, it will be my career. thanks for all of the replies it means a lot to me.
  7. hello! my boyfriend and I have been together for exactly 5 years, we are both 19 years old so we started dating when we were only 14 years old and in grade 9. I love him with all of my heart he is legit the most perfect person ever. he already has a full time job making really good money, a nice car, hes saving up for a house because he wants to buy one really badly and move out with me and start our lives together. back in September I was so excited I wanted to get pregnant and marry him so badly I couldn't wait. but now I don't feel that anymore and thinking about marrying him scares the out of me to the point where I have a panic attack. he is my first everything (you get what I mean) I never got to experience single teenage years. Recently I've gone to a dark place in my head and all I want to do is be alone. I don't want to see him or talk to him, and I haven't seen him in over a week and I still don't miss him or want to see him. I still love him so much, hes my bestfriend but I don't know what to do anymore. please somone help me figure this out and what I should do, because 5 years is such a long time.
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