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About Mystic16

  • Birthday 10/21/1980
  1. I know it hurts BELIEVE me I have been in your circumstance all too many times. It literally feels like someone sucked all the air out of your body. My best advice to you is to GIVE HIM SPACE. Cut off all contact. He needs to feel you withdraw your energy. He needs to feel like he lost you, he needs to miss you . You reaching out is only pushing him further away from you. Its going to feel HORRIBLE but this is a great opportunity for you to get to know yourself, to take up new hobbies, go to the gym, take that art class, make new friends, flirt with that guy at the coffee shop. Do the things t
  2. That is definitely a hurtful situation and I feel for you, I really do. A healthy relationship takes TWO people that feel acknowledged and heard. It sounds to me like he has a porn addition and possibly a confusion as to what sex is actually supposed to look like. Communication is key at this point, never be afraid to ask for what YOU want. If that doesn't change anything...its time to ask yourself the hard questions. Is this something I can live with? NEVER put others value above your own. Self love is not selfish...it is vital.
  3. The only opinion that matters is your own. You cannot control the shadows of others; it sounds to me like she is projecting HER insecurities and negative past experiences onto you. My best advice to you would be to get a journal and start to list all the things you like/love about yourself and then a list of things you would like to change and what those changes would look like. How would they make you feel? Are these YOUR goals for yourself or someone else's? Once you have narrowed your list down to ONLY your very own personal goals, start taking action! Every day do at least one thing to get
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