prettyboy23

This all started last year. Okay, I go to this bank about twice a week to deposit funds for a company I work for, and there is this bank teller that I use all the time, and I could swear she's hitting on me and wanting me to ask her out, but then again, I really am not sure. I am 24, shes 22. She's always telling me something personal about herself, and we always have conversations, and it makes me feel like she wants more. She's also flirty, and a smart allec which makes it even more flirtatious if you ask me. Well, way back last year, I asked one of her co-workers if she was seeing anyone, and they said yes, and it was a guy that was working there. Well, that guy doesn't work there anymore, and I'm not even sure if she is dating him anymore. And today, she kept asking me questions about my work, who works with me, what I do, etc. Then an hour later, she calls me at work telling me she messed up on a personal check she deposited for one of our employees. She asked for me..why didn't she ask for that person..I thought that was strange. Anyways, women, is she messing with my head, does she want me to ask her out, is this her way of flirting with me? What do I do? I just don't want to flat ask her out because if I did, and she did have someone, I would look stupid I think, because I go in there all the time.

Well, it looks like your in a big mess. Your situtation is a little like mine, except there was no 3rd person involved. I was with a woman for 2 years, and we got into verbal and phsycial fights, but she also was very bi-polar. She refused to take her meds, which even caused worse mood swings for her. She got very abusive towards me alot. The only thing I can tell you is, he will not change. He will always be like that. And it sounds like he is bi-polar, or a sociopath or something terrible disorder. Just like my ex was. She never changed, no matter how hard I tried and what not. Break up with this guy and for your life quickly before things get worse, and trust me, they will get bad. A person can change, but rarely does it happen. They have to be willing, and in this case, there's no hope. You can do alot better. Why put yourself through the drama? I mean ask yourself...IS THIS WORTH IT?

I AM VERY CONFUSED!! Okay, I do bookkeeping and sales for a company, and I go to the bank at least twice a week to make deposits for my company. Well, there is this teller that has been working there for over a year, and if she is available, I always go to her. Well, this goes back to 2004. She's always laughing, and is very playful towards me. She is a smart allic towards me alot, but I am back to her, but its in a playful way and to me seems flirtatious as well. Also, she always drops little bits about herself and always has little conversations with me as well. And I've never seen her do this with any other customer really. Well in January, I wanted to ask her out, but wanted to be sure she was single, so I asked a girl that worked with her if she was, but she said she was dating someone that worked there. I was a little bummed out, but she still constantly flirts with me it seems like. Today when I walked in, she goes "What's Going On Sunshine?" Am I looking into this too much? Somebody tell me what is going on...By the way I am 24, and she is 22. Any imput would greatly help. Thank you.

She is friends with her ex. She said she was sorry that she left the house, but she still sticks by her theory that since WE WERE NOT IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, it was okay by her to do that. And I plainly said to her again, any guy in my shoes would be upset. Dating or not, it is very rude to do. When she met up with him, he was very drunk, and he needed to talk to someone, because his then girlfriend cheated on him. I just think that I had to say to her that I could not be "just friends" right now, because it is too soon, and my feelings for her are still there. And she thought I was just a moron for saying that we shouldn't talk right now. I'm not sure what she wants, but like I said, when I started not calling her anymore, here shes blowing up my phone for almost a week. I had to put a stop to it. I must say this one really really hurts.

Okay, probably some of you have seen my post on here earlier last week about the girl I dated that left at 4 in the morning to go see her ex, because he called her and wanted to talk to her while I was staying at her house. And then we decided to become friends, and I did "no contact" with her for 3 days, and all of a sudden she starts calling me and texting me, and just blowing up my phone, for the next 4 days. She asked stuff like what have I been up to? am I dating anyone..blah blah. I lied and said I am dating someone else. Well, I do have feelings for her still, and I hate it were not dating, so I told her that I didn't want to talk to her for a few weeks, because every time I talk to her, I miss her more and that I thought about her alot. I also said I want these feelings to go away, because she chose it this way, and I don't want to be hung up on her. She agreed to do that, but she got mad and said that was so stupid, but is it? I want to get over her, and I did try once by not talking to her, but she wouldn't leave me alone. Does she regret choosing to be "friends" or what? What am I missing?

Okay, so I dated this girl for 6 weeks. We ended up being friends afterwards, but that was HER choice. Well we didn't talk for 3 days, and then all of a sudden, she's text messaging and blowing up my phone and stuff. I ignored her the 1st day, but then we talked the next day. She was asking stuff like am I dating anyone?, am I cool that we are friends?, am I mad at her?..stuff like that. Well I lied and said I was starting to date someone just to get her jealous. She is not dating anyone yet she told me. It's been a week since she decided to be friends. The "no-contact" thing worked it seemed, because now shes calling me alot. My question is does she regret breaking it off? Does she want me back? I do miss her, and I would love to date her again, but I'm the one thats gonna push it. What do I do? HELP ME!!!

So What Should I Do Now? We haven't talked in 3 days, and thats the longest we have not talked. I admit, Its driving me crazy. I am pissed she went to her ex's, but deep down, I miss talking to her. I know that she did not want a relationship now, and I was okay by it. She just felt I was telling her what to do, and used that against me to say that I wanted something more serious. Since we agreed to be just friends, should I call first or wait to see if she does? Or is it pretty much done with? Or How Long Should I wait? I would like to date her again, but if that dont happen, id rather be friends than nothing. Any suggestions?

So I meet this girl at a bar, and we hit it off great. Only thing is we live 30 minutes apart from each other, but it was no big deal. She didn't want a serious thing yet, neither did I. But we saw each other every weekend, either I stayed at her house, or she stayed at my apartment. Now, she told me she had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year relationship about 5 months ago, and that I was the first guy she had dated and had sex with since him. So we dated for about 6 weeks, and during the middle of that 6 weeks, her ex is calling her wanting her back, because he finds out shes dating someone now. Well, they talk as friends, and I didn't mind, but this last Saturday, I was spending the night at her house, and at 4 in the morning, her ex calls crying and drunk and says he needs to talk to her about something. She tells me she is going over there and she will be right back. Well I got really upset, and I said if you go, I am leaving. Well, we got in a big fight and I left. She said I should have understood what she was doing and that since we weren't in a relationship, it was okay for her to do. Now, were not dating anymore and we agreed to be just friends, and it really hurts because I liked this girl alot. Was I in the wrong or was she? And Why in the hell would she do this, especially after we talked everyday, and really affectionate with each other? She says shes over him, and doesn't want him back, but I don't buy that bull. Please someone help!