Here is my situation...
We have sex about once a month and when we do I feel that I am inconveniencing her b/c somewhere along the line she became uptight about it. I thought that it was my appearance that was the root of the problem, so I lost 40lbs and still no change. She has put on about 50 lbs since we married, but I could overlook that if everything else was right. Conversation is lifeless even though I can talk about anything with anyone. There is no affectionate touches coming from her direction and when I try to initiate it's like pulling teeth, so I don't try anymore. I feel as though I don't want to come home at night. The only thing keeping me around is my son. She is a wonderful mother but has somehow forgotten about me. Whats more is that I have mentioned these concerns to her and she is so pigheaded that it goes in one ear and out the other without so much as thought. It's kind of odd b/c her parents had the same type of relationship and they divorced due to infidelity. Although, I have not cheated on her, I unfortunately have to say that I would hesitate to say no if an offer came around. I have mentioned therapy, but she is not too keen on it.
Ultimately, what is happening is that I am beginning to fall out of love with my wife and in love with the idea that there is someone better out there for me. Am I wrong to think this way?
