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  1. Thank you so much for taking the time out to answer me i will give this a go! So could to here from someone else that has been through it Can I ask did you ever settle down with someone else in the end? Stay safe x
  2. Yes thats what I thought, but will I still feel the same in a different house?
  3. I get that you guys n girls give me that advice and wish I could move on. Yes I know it sounds sad but cant see my self with anyone else. I wish I hated her I mean she is with someone else now so why can't I move on. Sorry if I'm annoying repeating myself but I'm lost
  4. Thanks for a quick reply, yes I totally get you but its just not that easy I can go for weeks ok, then its hits me like today - thinking about when we first moved in together etc. Yes Im aware I sound like a wet blanket but I'm here for help. Thing I don't get is if she's with someone else why does she message me? In my subconscious I suppose I still think there's hope. I feel robbed of thd future we were meant to have and grow old together. She said yesterday she's scared of the future and no one will be like me. Its easy for people to say move on but we are not talking 2 years hear it
  5. Ok so I thought id start a new thread about my break up feelings, so long story short, my partner (45)and I (47)of 20 years separated nearly 2 years ago, we have 2 girls together 17yo lives with me and 21yo lives with her mum. We have kept in touch had teas together etc.. she has started dating a new man – she still messages me, just to see if im ok etc.. I don’t spend all day wallowing in self-pity anymore but do still miss her and have yet to even become interested in anyone else (I don’t know why). She moved out and I live in the house we brought our kids up in! a lot of memories, do people
  6. So does that make her a narcissist?
  7. What a lovely response thank you. And good to hear it from a ladies point of view, I think you are right! What I dont get is what does she get out of stringing me along? Is it narcissism? I think as you say I need to stop it now, yes I have said this before but life is too short for me to be this unhappy. Thanks for the talk Mark x
  8. Its al a bloody mess, I cant block her cause we share 2 children. Yes I agree I shouldn't still be feeling like this but cant shake it off- I wish I could. Being in this house we shared doesn't help- all the memories. Such a struggle 😔
  9. I know I've had good advice and I took it! I stopped chasing and nis she says shed made a mistake, so what jf she is genuine? And does want to give it a go? People make mistakes dont they, im going to give it until 31st of this month to come back if not I need to just tell her good luck etc.. Should I give her the ultimatum? Thanks all for your support
  10. Ok so its been a while and feeling low so thought I'd do a quick update, she has been seeing this new guy for a good few months now and sleeps over there alot, he has 3 kids, she has been calling me saying she's made a big mistake but said she doesn't want to upset anyone! Tells me she loves me, she cries for me etc... She said everything is messed up, any advice, it would be hard for me as I know she's slept with him but I could overcome that we could be a family again. Im a lost soul
  11. Ok so its been a while and feeling low so thought I'd do a quick update, she has been seeing this new guy for a good few months now and sleeps over there alot, he has 3 kids, she has been calling me saying she's made a big mistake but said she doesn't want to upset anyone! Tells me she loves me, she cries for me etc... She said everything is messed up, any advice, it would be hard for me as I know she's slept with him but I could overcome that we could be a family again. Im a lost soul
  12. Why are Sundays always harder, I know have good days and bad days, does it ever turn to just good days? Still find myself thinking about her 😔
  13. Thank you all, I felt like I was not getting over it but certainly alot better, its wierd I don't miss her anymore I miss the companionship, real robbed of the future that was planned out. I seriously doubt he would have seen it cause only calls me when she not with him. You guys/girls are great thank you x
  14. Ok so quick update guys n girls, have been doing the no contact and no longer staring at my phone for it to receive a message. It was my birthday yesterday, and Friday night at exactly 12.00 midnight she messages me saying I love you I miss you. Please don't message back. What's this all about? Thanks for listening all
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