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just out of interest, do you get this kind of treatment in the day or just on nights out? to answer question, it deosnt feel weird to me, I always thought most people enjoyed attention. (but I can see what you mean too, as I'm quite picky and dont take it any further than flirting w/ most..)

i got about 9.4-6 on hotornot, its not accurate (like i said i give myself 7ish, i look a bit like JC Van Damme). brad pitt et al are a 9. tbh i wouldnt want to be that high, since i've had girls tell me i intimidated them at my current level, lol. venturer- why are men intimidated? i'd say because they focus too much on the outcome and don't want their ego devestated. personally i'd be more pissed off if a 6 rejected me than a 9 (even then i wouldnt care tho, because i know she'd be thinking i only wanted a f***, which might be true, hehe)

i'm about 7 facially on a world scale, better around here tho, lol I do see many many hotties with ugly guys here tho so like it matters...

definitely a good thing. you don't have to be Brad Pitt to get stares... for one, as a guy being confident and having a cool vibe raises your value bigtime.

hey dancergirl, post a pic and we'll tell you if you're a 9 or one of those amusing breed of '6whothinkthey're9's' to answer the question, yes a lot of men are intimidated by hot women. also, a lot of women are intimidated by hot men.

lol. i GUARENTEE no woman i have ever made EC with thought i was creepy. i'm not actually one for staring at girls much though, since my standards are very high. btw, I've had a few girls who were staring at me (i wasn't looking much, ie caught them doing it always) a LOT then when i approached them totally spazzed out and became nervous. Girls, dont stare at guys if you cant even handle when they approach!!!

yeah DTZ is right. As for girls saying EC doesnt mean anything, they also say they want nice guys who buy em flowers, lol.. "oh i thought i'd stare at this random stranger for 5 seconds because he looks so average and i forgot my glasses"

10 seconds would mean she finds you very attractive but nothing as certain. I'd say any amount of eye contact over a couple of seconds means that, who stares at people they find average.

I'd pick both.

of course it is good, it's a positive comment on looks.

below shoulder length and straight... I prefer blonde too like most guys... don't like the new fashion to wear it so it covers the eye(s), looks ridiculous.

i'd say it depends how hot the girl is. i.e, nobody is going to miss the chance with a 9/10 because she is too easy (lol) within reason, but otoh playing a few games like disinterest would help a 6

Mid 30's.

lol, i know. i disagree

yeah they are usually with friends... just in case they are being rude I make sure to tense up really good so they are the ones getting bruised. *bumps into kitz* oops. sorry...