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  1. gstylez07
    I can completely feel your pain my friend. Just one year ago my ex girlfriend, the first girl I ever loved, broke up with me. Itried a few times to go to her house and talk with her but she shunned me away without any explanation other than "i just cant take you"... I was in a very dark place for months, feeling as if I had just lost all happiness that ever existed inside of me. I never thought it would end, I wason the brink of suicide. That break-up brought out a side of me that I never thought existed, a weakness im ashamed to show. Eventually I was put on anti-depressants and dropped out of my school to avoid her... I have been working for my father and attaining my GED ever since. I have a few friends a new GF and I work out a couple times a week. Yet i still find myself getting very depressed and resorting to drugs. I still think of my ex often though... and in a way i still miss her and hate hearing about the guys she hooks up with. She is a different person since her father died. I know we will never be togeather again, she isnt the same girl anymore and never will be. I'm still in a rut since she left me a year ago and i cant get out of it... sometimes i wonder if i ever will. Imstill in love with a girl that left me over 12 months ago,and i wonder if i will ever find that same feeling again. So just know that your not the only one who feels this. And she cant be the only one girl for you. There must be something in our future that will make up for the losses we have beared.
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    Sounds like your upset... You'll see better days... you dont know what tomorow holds, remember that.
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    if your in a relationship and you are trying to get close with this other guy cause you like him... than you arent being fair to your bf at all. You cant have a simple friendship with someone you like... it will just get complicated. Dump your bf and take your chances with this other guy... or stay with your bf and completely forget him.
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    you cant make someone want you... You can do anything you want in this world if you want it bad enough...but that is not one of them. You dont need him. He has someone else now, if he wanted you he would be with you. I know it hurts, but heartbreak is one of lifes greatest challenges. Overcome it, and you will be a stronger person. 6,000,000,000 people out there....go find one who feels the same about you. I promise you will find some
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    Been there....still am I suppose. It gets better though. I was on the brink of suicide at one point....heavy depression and the loss of my girlfriend....sent me off the edge...it was the hardest time of my life, I never thought anything would change. but slowly they did. I met new people and found new hobbies, bought a new car....slowly life improves. Dont talk to her, it will only hurt until your really over her. She will probly lead you on and act like there is still a glimmer of hope....but its all b.s. Its impossible not to think about her, but time heals all wounds. Good luck my friend...your in for a journey...but you will come out a stronger person
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    You just put my life into words... I am in the exact same situation as you right now....i feel for you. I dont know much to say, if I did I guess I wouldnt be having these problems either. Hit me up if you wanna talk man.
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    at 14 a girlfriend is the last thing you want. I know it seems like you need one....but you REALLY dont want one!!! I had my first serious relationship when I first turned seventeen....I learned alot in that one relationship...about sex, love, emotions......and I also learned about the hassle and the pain involved. At fourteen you need to be worrying about just making friends doing your schoolwork and having fun. A simple relationship is ok....but you shouldnt devote yourself to any real relationship....it can be very hard and painful sometimes, best to start slow and just make alot of friends....things will fall into place, you will get a girl when you arent even looking for one. If you have trouble talking to girls and such, the best way to learn is to practice. Social skills can be very hard for some and easy for others. Just talk more....get to know some of them. I wish I could help you more....but its really up to you. Go for it!!!
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    Take it from someone who knows. Try and stick with people close to your age. About half a year ago I started dating a fourteen year old (I was seventeen). Her parents disaproved, but we continued to see each other. eventually they took me to court and handed me with a 8 month restraining order. If i am seen with her again...I could go to jail! I am currently waiting for her to turn 16 in 13 months (legal age of consent). Although she seems like a very nice girl and you may care about her....its best to either wait for a VERY long time, (by then she will most likely change her mind about you anyways) or you can find someone else. Its sad....but its the truth.
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    I am going through the same exact thing... I am with a girl whom I care for very much right now....yet I still find myself thinking of my ex now and then. Even though my ex/gf is a horrable person...and has done cruel and disgusting things....i still miss the times we shared....i dont know why...but i see her...i find myself staring at her and talking to her. Trying to remain friends, when I have every reason not too. My current gf is a very caring person who would do anything for me....but I'm so scared of getting hurt again.....the last time i felt that pain...it nearly took my life (read previous posts).....its been almost 4 months and its still not completely gone, not a day goes by where i dont think of her......but i find myself thinking of the new gf 100 times more.....
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    i understand how you feel....my gf left me a month ago and since she has taken a change for the worse. She has been partying, doing drugs, sleeping with random guys..... i wanna help her, but i know she wont listen to me. best to just let her realize her mistakes on her own.
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    I dont have much for advise.....but I can tell you right now, I know how you feel....I cant let go of my ex...even after all the things she has done....I hate this, if it persist for too much longer...I dont think I'll make it. Just stay strong.
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    I have only had sex with one girl, and it was great......we had alot of sex. But the whole thing about sex making a girl more attached.....not true..... i was her first......she dumped me cold a month ago and now wont even speak to me.....if anything it made me more attached, not her.
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    yes, just dont think about all the good times with ur ex....those times are gone and will never come back. The girl you once knew is gone....think of her as dead...because shes not the same obviously. Time to start thinking about the new girl and how you hate the things she does.
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    Thats exactly how I feel right now. My ex/gf and I broke up 2 weeks ago and she has already fooled around with 2 or more guys. Shes out getting drunk and partying, then she braggs about all the fun shes having with these guys to my friends and sister. As if they arent going to tell me. If she truly cared about my feelings she would have kept it to herself instead of letting it get to me. now I'm furious at how disrespectful she has been to me....I dont want her back.....I miss her, but would never take her back now that I know the real her. Bottom line.....being mad is easier than being sad......if hating her is what it takes than hate away.
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    Breaks are just ways for your gf to go out and realize she enjoys messing around at parties and **** more thean she wants to be with you....at leats thats what happened with my gf....we took a break, she realized she liked the space and we broke up....now shes out messing with other guys gettin drunk and its only been 2 weeks. Bottom line, dont go back to her....if shes gonna do that to you then you deserve better.....next time dont do the break thing though, never works.
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    I dont think I could.... I'm not a virgin, I had sex with one girl, whom I am no longer with, and even though I think about trying one night stands, I dont think it would be very enjoyable....I found that the more time I spent getting to know my now ex/gf, the more I enjoyed sex with her...so I think sex is best when you do it with someone special, not just some stranger you met that night.
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    Hey, I know its so hard.....I am so miserable right now too, I keep listening to old voicemails of my ex and just cry.......I want to call her so bad, but I know it will only work against me......STAY STRONG..... Talk to friends, get out a little, go and run through the streets in the nude ....anything to get your mind off of her, even if for just a moment..... I can do it......You can too....
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    I know how you feel, me and my gf have gone our separate ways....its been almost a week, and I would give anything to have her with me again. Its like someone could hand me a million dollars and it still wouldnt please me...all I want is her. I have considered calling her....then I hear all the mean things shes been saying about me and I change my mind. Bottom line, dont call her. At least not now. If she kicked you out then you will only look desperate going back to her, that may push her away even more. If she cares enough, she will eventually call you. Just give her time to figure things out in her head. Thats what I am doing with my ex.
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    I'm not sure I agree......It depends on the situation.....I think if they left things off on bad terms....then it may be best to try and make things better, not be togeather, but at least get along. Who wants to go on hating each other, there is no reason for it.....BUT......if the other person just doesnt want to be with you anymore...thats a different story, there is no closure for that. You cant make someone love you.
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    Hey I'm going through the same exact thing you are.....weird. anyways.....my ex/gf is being mean to me now too, even when she used to love me sooo much. Now I'm the one getting hurt. I need closure too, I dont want to leave things off the way we did...so I'm writing a letter to her. feel free to IM me if you want to talk, I know exactly how you feel.....I wake up every morning and cry Im so upset. Just dont chase her around, you'll look crazy.
  21. gstylez07
    4 days here....omg....its the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. I keep wondering how she feels. If shes, sad, angry, happy about it. I want to go and give things one more shot, just because we left things off in a very cruel manner. we both said some mean things and havent spoken since....a part of me wants to go apologise, but another part of me knows that she wont listen even if I do. I guess I'll just keep trying to stay away.
  22. gstylez07
    I have been in the same situation.....I just recently moved outta my parents house and am living alone....now my gf and I have broken up....I dont know which way is up anymore, everywhere I look there is a memory....a feeling that she gave me....now all I got is me/myself and I. I guess all we need is time, and maybe some friends for motivation too....but trust me, I understand how bad it can hurt, I have been contemplating some very scary things the past couple of days, luckily I havent followed through with anything. Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that there are many others who feel the same way. Just be strong, and you'll come out stronger...."depend on no one but yourself" I am finally figuring that out, soon you will too.
  23. gstylez07
    Actually, my girlfriend and I are going through the same exact thing. Last night we got into another argument about how we never see each other anymore. And when I can see her I have to sneak into her bedroom because I get out of work late. She sais she doesnt want to do this anymore, and that we dont do anything fun and exciting. Things just arent the same. I love her to death, but I over-anylize everything she does, it causes arguments and its not right but I cant help it. We decided to take a "break" for a while. But I dont know if things are gonna work out. I hate it, Its been less than 1 day and I already miss her so much.
  24. gstylez07
    Ok, so I'v been dating this girl for about 4 months now. At first things were excellent, she was crazy about me. I had never had anyone actually care about me so much and like me for who I was. She was always very clingy but I liked knowing how much she adored me. But now the tables have turned, it seems I have fallen in love with this girl. She is everything to me. We are togeather all the time and when I'm not with her I think about her constantly. She says she feels the same, and tells me I'm the best thing thats ever happened to her. But I am constantly worried about losing her. I feel like I need her to tell me she loves me every 5 minutes, which I know isnt necessary. We have already talked about it, and she tells me not to think about things like that, but I am so scared that I could lose her. If at anytime she doesnt want to kiss me or something, I get worried we are growing apart. Things just dont seem like they used to. She used to be so clingy and cared so much, but now it seems like I'm the clingy one. I also get jealous way to easily, If I even hear about her talking on the phone with a guy friend I get upset. I know I shouldnt, and I try not to show her that I'm pissed but for some reason I still get angry. I dont even like hearing about other guys shes flirted with before she was with me. I know I shouldnt be like this, but I cant help how I feel. I know this all sounds stupid. I realize I have made her the center of my life, which isnt healthy. But I cant help it, I love her to death but sometrhing just isnt right with us, and I think its me. I just want to be a good thing for her and I feel like I'm just bringing her down with my negativity. I dont want to push her away by being to clingy and emotional. I try not to be this way, but I always am.
  25. gstylez07
    I know how you feel. I just lost a girl, she was the first one I ever felt that strongly for. It's been a while and now she is with someone else, but I still cant stop thinking about her. I have to deal with seeing her and her new b/f togeather everyday, and it kills me. I feel like I should have moved on by now, but I cant. I walk froom one class to the next evryday praying that I wont bump into her and stir up past feelings. I'm in a constant daze and I dont know how I feel. I guess I'm somewhat mad at myself for not moving on. She seems happier now, and it hurts that I couldnt do that for her. I hate her and love her at the same time. I think it takes time, depending on how strongly you felt for this person it could take a long time. I would just stay away from trying to make contact, it helps, I wish I could do the same. I know I'm alot younger so I cant dish out any real good advise, but I can assure you your not the only one.
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